Deano Posted January 8, 2006 Share Posted January 8, 2006 There is a girl that is a friend of mine that I really like I chat to her on msn and over the phone she flirts with me over the phone and playfully teases me she asked if anyone liked me and I told her a girl at the supermarket liked me and she looked at me alot and was nice and slim. Than she says do you like me and I say no but she says yes you do on msn and told me that Gemini And Saggiterous match I'm the Gemini one. I told her that I liked her alot and ever since than she has been acting weird. She went on holiday for new years and said that she likes some guy in Hamilton 250 km's 2 hours drive away she never went on holiday to Hamilton than she says on her display name BACKRUBS RRROCK and wrote hint hint Dylan xoxo just to make me really jealous she is doing it on purpose coz she is not slim she says and I think she is jealous she also made up some crap about moving down to hamilton at the end of the year to piss me off she told me she isn't ready for a relationship as she still doesn't trust guys after her breakup with her ex fiance in 2004 she always wants me to ring her and when I went offline coz I was mad she said why did u go offline I said does there have to be a reason she went all quiet I couldn't sleep the other night because of this what should I do she is 20 years old and I'm 19 and i'm so confused I can't see what I did wrong just coz I add chicks to myspace and chat to other ones on the phone she gets really jealous. I am not speaking to her and we got into an argument. Link to post Share on other sites
Deirdre Posted January 8, 2006 Share Posted January 8, 2006 she sounded abit possessive and possibly suffering from a low self esteem. you liking others was becoming a 'threat' and already shes so fond of you perhaps. its not healthy to demand so much from another person......maybe you can try speaking to her less. (for your own sanity...but it might do her worse) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Deano Posted January 8, 2006 Author Share Posted January 8, 2006 Well I haven't spoken to her since last wednesday she asked me if I liked anyone again and I asked her if she liked anyone she said not telling you one week before I was txting her and she told me to go on msn my dad was on and she goes get him off the computer she txt me yesterday about some car that I liked and said do you like it? why is she trying to make me jealous going on about another guy is it because I told her about the other girls and is it a test to see if I like her? I don't think she likes being ignored by me and she changed that display name that said BACKRUBS RRROCK HINT HINT DYLAN XOXO coz she knew it pissed me off. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Deano Posted January 9, 2006 Author Share Posted January 9, 2006 what should I do now she is talking with me again I want to meet her she keeps up the teasing and stuff. Does she like me? She also laughs at every dumb thing I say even if it's not funny. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 she likes you and is playing games b/c she wants to see how far you're willing to go after her. that is why girls play games, they are too unsure of what the guy is thinking about them and wants to see how much he really likes her and is willing to go through to get her. if you really do like her a lot then i would keep making it obvious that you like her and that she should tell you what she thinks of you. i mean a guy can only get enough of the mind games and teases for so long before it starts pissing them off. and if she is persistent about it then dont waste your time and go after that girl in the supermarket (if she's hot and into you that is!) or any girl that you may like for that matter. Link to post Share on other sites
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