Need new fiancé advice

[EngagedWithQuestions]

Hey there,

I literally looked up relationship advice on GPT and gave me this site. Please help. 

 

I have been dating my guy for 5 years and on our anniversary got engaged. It’s now been 7 months since we have been engaged/moved in together and things are different. 

no, he doesn’t cheat, neither do i, but he dislikes the amount of sex we have. he hates it. recently he has just made it the core reason why he gets upset with me about anything. 

i know we love each other but it has been rough… please. any advice? 

[NuevoYorko]

Maybe you're sexually incompatible.   Why do you think you're just having this issue since your engagement?

 

[Gebidozo]

Please clarify and provide more detail: what does it mean “he dislikes the amount of sex we have”? What’s the amount of sex you have? Does he dislike it because it’s too high, or too low? Has this amount increased, or decreased drastically since the engagement? Have you had absolutely no problem in that regard for five years? How does he motivate his dislike? What is he asking you to do about that?

[ExpatInItaly]

7 hours ago, EngagedWithQuestions said:

but he dislikes the amount of sex we have. he hates it

What does this mean? Is it too much or too little, in his opinion?

[Els]

You're going to have to give us a bit more information than that if you want any advice...

[BaileyB]

Sexual incompatibility can be a real dealbreaker for many relationships. I have a difficult time understanding why this issue would suddenly become a problem following your engagement. Has it not been an issue in the five years of your relationship? We need more information to offer any more specific advice. 

Edited December 8, 2024 by BaileyB

[NuevoYorko]

I don't think we are getting any more information ... the mysteries of LoveShack.  

[stillafool]

Does he think you're having too much sex, and he isn't into it or the other way around?  Sexual compatibility is majorly important if you're thinking about getting married.  Lack of compatibility in that area will cause major problems in your marriage.