EngagedWithQuestions Posted December 7 Share Posted December 7 Hey there, I literally looked up relationship advice on GPT and gave me this site. Please help. I have been dating my guy for 5 years and on our anniversary got engaged. It’s now been 7 months since we have been engaged/moved in together and things are different. no, he doesn’t cheat, neither do i, but he dislikes the amount of sex we have. he hates it. recently he has just made it the core reason why he gets upset with me about anything. i know we love each other but it has been rough… please. any advice? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted December 7 Share Posted December 7 Maybe you're sexually incompatible. Why do you think you're just having this issue since your engagement? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gebidozo Posted December 7 Share Posted December 7 Please clarify and provide more detail: what does it mean “he dislikes the amount of sex we have”? What’s the amount of sex you have? Does he dislike it because it’s too high, or too low? Has this amount increased, or decreased drastically since the engagement? Have you had absolutely no problem in that regard for five years? How does he motivate his dislike? What is he asking you to do about that? 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted December 7 Share Posted December 7 7 hours ago, EngagedWithQuestions said: but he dislikes the amount of sex we have. he hates it What does this mean? Is it too much or too little, in his opinion? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted December 8 Share Posted December 8 You're going to have to give us a bit more information than that if you want any advice... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted December 8 Share Posted December 8 (edited) Sexual incompatibility can be a real dealbreaker for many relationships. I have a difficult time understanding why this issue would suddenly become a problem following your engagement. Has it not been an issue in the five years of your relationship? We need more information to offer any more specific advice. Edited December 8 by BaileyB Quote Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted December 8 Share Posted December 8 I don't think we are getting any more information ... the mysteries of LoveShack. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted December 8 Share Posted December 8 Does he think you're having too much sex, and he isn't into it or the other way around? Sexual compatibility is majorly important if you're thinking about getting married. Lack of compatibility in that area will cause major problems in your marriage. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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