I told this guy I wanted to be friends with him and have sex. and he reacted to the message with a heart

[ExpatInItaly]

11 hours ago, Melissa_G said:

Is this why we've had sex before?

That doesn't mean he wants to have sex with you again. 

He obviously doesn't. 

[Andy_K]

On 12/14/2024 at 2:37 AM, BaileyB said:

But, when you text and say, “I like being your friend and I want to have sex with you again…” (ie. I have no expectations and no strings attached)… his reply with a ❤️ likely means - “awesome, I’m down with that.”
 

This. In this instance, it's like replying to a message with a thumbs up, but stronger. Like 'Great! That works for me'. Since you've already slept together, he sees no need to bother pinning you down (figuratively) for a date/time. It's a low effort response for a low effort arrangement, so no big deal. Just continue to arrange things between you however you were already doing it before.

[Esteban]

I tend to agree that this signals lowish interest possibly, but some of you are too confident in your opinions.

Replying with an emoji can sometimes just mean they are busy at the time the message was received. You can try waiting until the next day to see if they reply to the actual message to see how interested they are.

You also have to look at the overall context. Replying with an emoji might be OK if the person replying with an emoji has put more effort in earlier replying to messages, writing to longer messages, or being the one to actually initiate a phone call, for instance.

 

 

[smackie9]

I think I had said this to you on the other site...instead of this fartin around with covert messages...just come out and ask if he wants to meet up for sex. Straight and to the point. If he starts to dance around answering then you pretty much have an answer he ain't interested. Getting rejected when you offer sex to a man is an ego buster BUT it might be a sign that you should just be moving on to greener pastures and things have dried up with this guy.

Edited December 17 by smackie9

[NuevoYorko]

On 12/13/2024 at 12:00 PM, Melissa_G said:

Is this why we've had sex before?

It's probably why you are now asking him if you can have sex again.  Evidently he hasn't been asking you for it.