jbcok Posted December 14 Share Posted December 14 So, here's what I've got. I was never great at dating, mostly met girls online from 16-20. Met my wife when I was 21 and we were together 16 years. We're divorcing now and she's always been outgoing and bubbly and she's already had 3 guys at least express sexual interest in her possibly sex. Its been 2 months since we started the divorce. I need advice on where to meet girls, I'm outside Tulsa, ok. I'm decent handsome but feeling pretty awkward. Blue collar construction worker. Only thing around really is casinos but the girls in there are like 70 haha. I stopped drinking so wtf should I do? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted December 14 Share Posted December 14 About you actually get out of this marriage, settle down, give yourself time to mourn the end of this marriage and reconnect with yourself before taking on your next journey? This is not a race, it's more like marathon. Stop observing what your ex does, sure she eats men like candy and in 5 years she will wonder why she's still single after dating so many men. Concentrate on your personal goals, your health, your family, go on a couple trips. Dating reality is: not many woman will date a man *almost* out of a marriage. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted December 14 Share Posted December 14 You "started" the divorce 2 months ago but have you actually finished the divorce? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted December 15 Share Posted December 15 It's not a race or a competition. Give yourself a moment to settle into single life...have poker nights with your buddies, try a new activity like horse back riding, hiking, fishing, line dancing etc. Ease into it. Having an active lifestyle will look attractive to women. But for now, you are not put together....give it some time. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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