wanda1974 Posted January 8, 2006 Share Posted January 8, 2006 OK, a little history....I have been divorced from my ex husband for over two years now. He left me for another woman, which he is still living with. We had continuous problems in our marriage, so he didn't just leave me for another woman....drugs, alcohol, cheating involved. So anyway, the divorce was a little ugly, but over the past two years, we became friends. I also because friends (well, civil) with his present girlfriend. My ex and I have a 9 yr old daughter together in which we have joint custody of. So, last night, I receive a phone call from him asking me to go unlock my door because he was outside. He needed a place to stay. I guess he and his girlfriend got into a pretty bad fight, to where she slapped the **** out of him. I felt bad, but also asked him what he did to deserve that, he didn't answer. So he needed to hide out I guess until things cooled down at home. This is the father of my child, and I would never turn my back on him no matter what happened between us. Anyway, my question to all of you is...why would he show up at my house? Does he feel I'm some kind of security blanket? Am I just being an ass by letting him in my home? What input can y'all give me on this situation. I know he doesn't want to get back together, but why would he come to me? Link to post Share on other sites
InApickle Posted January 8, 2006 Share Posted January 8, 2006 I'd guess that you are like a security blanket for him. Someone he feels comfortable with and he must sense you would not turn him away. Link to post Share on other sites
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