Need advice dealing with wife that may or may not have cheated

[seeyainhi]

I know my wife has had an emotional affair. She has deleted many texts and still does today. I'm afraid to bring it up with her because she will communicate a different way. I am trying to figure out if I need to be concerned or I'm being crazy here. I would like to talk to someone to get an outside view. Maybe someone that has dealt with this.

[Gebidozo]

If you’re afraid to bring anything up with your wife, then it’s already a very unhealthy relationship.

Emotional affair would be a dealbreaker to me. I’d probably break up and divorce if that happened.

An alternative would be to confront her, make sure she regrets it and that she has no feelings for the other man anymore and no communication with him, and the set up a trial period during which you’ll gradually see whether you’re able to forgive her.

[Sony12]

On 12/20/2024 at 9:13 AM, seeyainhi said:

I know my wife has had an emotional affair. She has deleted many texts and still does today. I'm afraid to bring it up with her because she will communicate a different way. I am trying to figure out if I need to be concerned or I'm being crazy here. I would like to talk to someone to get an outside view. Maybe someone that has dealt with this.

Do you have any idea how she got in contact with this person or who this person might be? Did your wife join a dating site or is she talking to someone from her regular life?