Ra4magz Posted December 27, 2024 Share Posted December 27, 2024 Male (36) she (36) We dated for only 3 months. She lives an hour and a half away and I always made the effort to visit her to the point where I would change my schedule and get hotel rooms to be able to spend my time with her. When we first got intimate, she told me she liked my size because her last guy was too big and it hurt her. (Yes she said that) it completely ruined my confidence and made me feel insignificant. I don't believe that was something I should've ever been told. Things started going downhill from there and I started being resentful. Arguments ensued after that. The times I would stay out there in the hotel room, I would spend the nights alone due to her fearing her mom would then disapprove.....36 year old. I tried to understand, but was hard due to the fact that we're both 36 and she's been married and divorced. She did end up staying the night with me once and then would tell me after that her mom was giving her a cold shoulder and short with her because she made the decision to stay the night with me. Which I do find odd considering that we had gone on a camping trip and spend 3 nights together. The last straw came when she had asked me if I regret being in a long distance relationship, I told her no, but this relationship is different due to the fact that her mom was too involved and bringing negativity in the relationship. She told me that she regretted her asking the question because knew what was coming. I started drinking that night and made a big mistake by calling her out on all of our problems which led to an argument. I told her I'm done trying too hard and making all the effort. She then snapped and told me if I'm done trying so was she. She hung up and then ended things telling me that the relationship was irreparable and no more understanding between us and proceeded blocking me on everything. I did plea and beg over the phone not to do it, but she was sure and was not going to change her mind. I love her and want her back Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gebidozo Posted December 27, 2024 Share Posted December 27, 2024 OP, the conclusion that you made, namely 13 hours ago, Ra4magz said: I love her and want her back contradicts pretty much everything you wrote before that. Basically, your entire post screams “this is not a relationship that I want”. How can you say that you want her back if 13 hours ago, Ra4magz said: Things started going downhill from there and I started being resentful. ? You want “back” something that you never had with her. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Foxhall Posted January 4 Share Posted January 4 You were over sensitive about the size comment- you need to be able to laugh these things off, your probably over anxious about the whole hotel room stays- take a step back and let her tell you she wants to join you in the hotel, that said shes not meeting you half way, your having all the inconvenience, anyway when shes blocked you and its only three months- this may be best written off and learn from it. always messy also with the mother in law too close. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Chrysalis Posted January 5 Share Posted January 5 1 hour ago, Foxhall said: You were over sensitive about the size comment- you need to be able to laugh these things off, Agree. Newsflash: Penises aren't as powerful as you think they are. 1 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted January 5 Share Posted January 5 1 hour ago, Miss Chrysalis said: Agree. Newsflash: Penises aren't as powerful as you think they are. Yep, there may be a few size queens out there, but generally speaking most women are happy with perfectly average sized men. Pain from a well endowed man takes away from the enjoyment of sex 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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