Red flags

[Nikolaki]

So, she waxes just before going on a holidays trip, freaks when I suggest I would come over and gives three different arguments within a day of which none make sense and then disappeares from the grid some 250 km away from here holiday spot... How many red flags do you ladies see here or would you think I am paranoia?

[basil67]

I'd need to know more about your living situation, the quality of your relationship, her destination, how often she waxes, who she said she was going with, why you invited yourself along and what made you track her in the first place.

[Georgia46]

I’d say waxing before going on holiday is perfectly normal

- I’m more worried that you’re tracking where she is. 

Is this normal, is it the done *thing*? 

 

why would she freak out about you calling over ? 

[basil67]

10 minutes ago, Georgia46 said:

I’d say waxing before going on holiday is perfectly normal-

Agreed!   Particularly if it's summery and skirts and swimming will be involved

[Beautifully Complicated]

Have you tried talking to her about your concerns? Are you guys in a committed monogamous relationship?