basil67 Posted January 4 Share Posted January 4 2 hours ago, Foxhall said: C- I tried to do everything I could for that girl- I got her away from the sex industry, I got her a job in childcare, I tried to be a supporting and loving partner to her during our time together. Then she left me. "ok I did my best". I'm sure you realise that helping someone grow, develop and better their lives changes them. Thing is, change and personal development doesn't happen in isolation. As we change, we often move away from the things we used to enjoy and head in other directions. As it stood, you were part of her past as a sex worker but she moved on from that phase of her life. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Author Foxhall Posted January 4 Author Share Posted January 4 Thank you to all, when I posted this thread, I did not foresee sharing so much information, I imagine you see me as something of a nutcase or whatever, but I found a therapeutic element within the thread, to be fair you are a genuine group of people and have given me good advice and pointers. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted January 4 Share Posted January 4 You don't seem like a nutcase. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gebidozo Posted January 4 Share Posted January 4 3 hours ago, Foxhall said: I imagine you see me as something of a nutcase Not me. I’m a much bigger nutcase, anyway. I’ve done things compared to which your stuff seems very mild. And I think that you’re genuinely interested in improving your mental health and are open to changing certain things in your mindset, which is something a lot of people aren’t willing to do. 1 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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