Author DB24 Posted December 30, 2024 Author Share Posted December 30, 2024 1 hour ago, happyhorizons said: You deserve so much better than THIS CLOWN. You matter and that should be paramount in your thinking. Good Luck. You’re right that’s why I’m done with him. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted December 30, 2024 Share Posted December 30, 2024 1 hour ago, DB24 said: Initially, I didn’t know he was married. I found out in my own by doing some digging. So, that was your first clue that he wasn’t a “good” man with honest intentions. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
S2B Posted December 30, 2024 Share Posted December 30, 2024 (edited) So HE never told you he was married? every time you “date” anyone do a background check to be sure they aren’t married. did he actually take you OUT on dates? Or was he hiding you? How did you find out he was married? And good job ending it!!! Edited December 30, 2024 by S2B Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Author DB24 Posted December 30, 2024 Author Share Posted December 30, 2024 47 minutes ago, S2B said: So HE never told you he was married? every time you “date” anyone do a background check to be sure they aren’t married. did he actually take you OUT on dates? Or was he hiding you? How did you find out he was married? And good job ending it!!! He never told me he was married. When I met him he said that he was single. He talks about his kids but never mentioned a wife. I actually found out he was indeed married through a background check when I realized something was off. He always came to my house and never invited me to his which made me suspicious. He has a Facebook page but his wife is nowhere on his page and he doesn’t have a marital status. We did go out in public together. He had just invited me to go out with him the night before I found out about his wife. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
happyhorizons Posted December 31, 2024 Share Posted December 31, 2024 7 hours ago, DB24 said: He never told me he was married. When I met him he said that he was single. He talks about his kids but never mentioned a wife. I actually found out he was indeed married through a background check when I realized something was off. He always came to my house and never invited me to his which made me suspicious. He has a Facebook page but his wife is nowhere on his page and he doesn’t have a marital status. We did go out in public together. He had just invited me to go out with him the night before I found out about his wife. Have you blocked him? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Author DB24 Posted December 31, 2024 Author Share Posted December 31, 2024 1 hour ago, happyhorizons said: Have you blocked him? Yes! I have not spoken to him since the last conversation. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted December 31, 2024 Share Posted December 31, 2024 (edited) 7 hours ago, DB24 said: Yes! I have not spoken to him since the last conversation. Have you actually blocked him from your phone though - so that he can’t contact you again? There is a difference between the two - Edited December 31, 2024 by BaileyB 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
happyhorizons Posted December 31, 2024 Share Posted December 31, 2024 9 hours ago, DB24 said: Yes! I have not spoken to him since the last conversation. Good just put this behind you Good Luck Quote Link to post Share on other sites
scbrandon Posted December 31, 2024 Share Posted December 31, 2024 On 12/29/2024 at 6:13 PM, DB24 said: The married man that I’m dating tells me that….since I’m a professional woman, he’s gonna treat me as such. As the man that he is he would not disrespect me, my household, or bring any problems my way and like myself, know that I have a good person in my back pocket! Then he sent a kissy face emoji 😘. What does all of this mean? I have yet to respond to it. Considering this dude is married makes me question his sincerity in statements like that. ‘Since you are a professional woman’ - expand on that a bit more if you could. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted December 31, 2024 Share Posted December 31, 2024 20 hours ago, DB24 said: He has a Facebook page but his wife is nowhere on his page and he doesn’t have a marital status. They probably have another FB account that has pictures of their life together and he has a this other FB account she knows nothing about that he uses to cheat on her with other women, pretending he is a single man. It's very doubtful that you are his first or only affair. On 12/29/2024 at 6:13 PM, DB24 said: The married man that I’m dating tells me that….since I’m a professional woman, he’s gonna treat me as such. As the man that he is he would not disrespect me, my household, or bring any problems my way and like myself, know that I have a good person in my back pocket! Then he sent a kissy face emoji 😘. What does all of this mean? I have yet to respond to it. Why are you worrying about what his comments mean when you know he's a liar and a cheater and you already have him blocked? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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