Did She Cheat ? It's Been a Long Process.

[natetaysom]

It's been a long slow process of trying to get information out of my wife about something that may have happened a few years ago in 2021. Back then we were going through sorta a rough time in our marriage. I was working long hours, and she also worked too. She would work after our ...... was off of school on like a swing shift with a local store as a cashier/self check out helper.

Well long story short, back then I notice that she started to get friendly with a guy online, which at first was not a huge deal. But as a few months go by, I can see that her online comments to were getting more and more "friendly". After I did some digger myself, I found out the guy was a traveling worker that had been at the store she works at doing some upgrades to the store. I begin to look on our phone records that she also had been sends lots of txts back to a number that was out of state. Then on day she left a comment on one of his online pages and he told her that it would be better if she would get a seperate texting app. to txt from now on.
After that I could tell what was going on. Because she never did send any more text's to the out of state number, or comment on this guys online page. Till one night, her phone just happen to ping with a message and it was sitting on a table next to me. It was just a simple message asking what she was doing right now.
Well, that's when I let her know I sorta knew that something is going on. And spelled some things out about us. She admitted that she meet this guy at work, and a relationship with him was just starting to get warmed up. And it was because how things were going with us at the time.

I asked her at the time, how far it has gone with him, and she just said " It hasn't really gone anywhere" " This just sorta really just started and nothing has happen between them" "She didn't have sex with him or anything like that". She went on to tell that she hadn't meet him in private or nothing. Well, right then she sent a txt to him cutting him off from her. And a few days later he did get moved across the country. We got our marriage and life right again and everythingss been good since then. That was all back in 2021.

Cut to just the other day. We were drinking, and letting lose about alot of our past adventure's with partners long before we got married, stuff we never talked about before. We were laughing about past lovers. Then I did bring out about the guy that was at her store back in 2021. She was like "Oh him, we were just having those troubles with us. And he was a little younger, and was muscular and hot " " And he has started to flirt and pay attention to her alot" which " Made her feel special again".
Then I asked her how far did it really.... go with him? I told her that I just wanted to know and it was along time ago, and water under the bridge. She would almost say something then stop. Then I asked if he ever asked her out? She said "Yes". Then I ask her was it back to his place? " She said "Yes".

I asked her did you go? She didn't answer right away, then " Yes. I went to he's house" Then I asked her then what? have far did it go. She just said "It didn't go far, he invited me in and did try to get "close" with her, but she stopped everything before anything happen with him".
Right then she just told me to not to worry about the past and she then just changed the subject to something else. It's been along process and getting more out of my wife about what happen back then. But more is coming out. And the more that comes out it sounds like in my mind that something did happen with her and him. What do you guys think?