B-mouse Posted December 30, 2024 Share Posted December 30, 2024 I’ve been in a serious relationship for a while, and overall, things have been pretty good. But recently, I’ve found myself questioning some of my partner's behavior. While I was on a work trip, I met someone new, and we clicked right away. Even though this person moved abroad for work, our connection felt so intense, and we’ve kept in touch... Now I’m really struggling with my feelings. The new person has made it clear that want me to move and leave everything behind to have a life together. Sometimes they feel warm and open, but other times it feels like just doesn’t care—wanting me to figure everything out while they stay a bit distant…but somehow it feels real. On the flip side, I’ve talked through my feelings with my partner, and they’ve made a real effort to change by starting therapy. I’ve seen some positive changes, which makes me feel even more conflicted. I can’t shake my feelings for the new person, but my partner is genuinely trying, and it’s hard to ignore that…. I feel frozen and so confused. It’s such a complicated mess of emotions, and I’m not sure what to do next…any advice would be really appreciated! Tks Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted December 30, 2024 Share Posted December 30, 2024 Am I understanding this correctly, you are the person engaging with a “new” person but you are questioning your current partner’s behavior and commitment to the relationship? Link to post Share on other sites
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