howtodeal Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 I broke up with my emotionally abuse boyfriend almost a year ago. The only way the he liked to have sex was very degrading. He always had to have anal sex while calling me a dirty whore. He would always say that he loved feeling like he was violating my body. I went along with it because that is what he liked and I did that back then. He even enjoyed rape porn, which I found out soon before I broke up with him. I now feel disgusted when I think about having sex. I feel like it is violating my body. I used to be a pretty sexual person with my boyfriends, but now I can't get over how he made me felt. I'm not quite sure who to get over this and want to enjoy even a heathly sexual relationship with somebody. Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 If this is something you're not able to overcome by yourself, then it's time to find a good therapist. We aren't equipped to fix everythign that happens to us by ourselves. Link to post Share on other sites
helena abadi Posted January 10, 2006 Share Posted January 10, 2006 i agree. experiencing such a thing is pretty traumatic, and professional support and advice would be essential. anything that damages our sense of sexual self hits v hard. sorry you went thru such a bad time. Link to post Share on other sites
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