Newtodating1963 Posted January 9 Share Posted January 9 Hi Loveshack. I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend now for just over a year, and I find that I'm quite needy in my relationship. I feel I need a lot of reassurance and confirmation that everything is good. I find I do a lot of the work regarding affection, I tell my partner a lot that I lover her and touch her throughout the day, I love the reassurance from the affection and touch I get from her, but that is not always very forthcoming, I look to her for affection but don't get a lot back... I have asked her if she likes my affection, and she always says she does, but she says she is not really used to it... I think she finds it hard to give/show affection. I want to feel loved, cared for and reassured everything is ok, but not sure how I do that, I can't keep asking her is everything ok... a bit stuck. Thanks in advance. Link to post Share on other sites
Gebidozo Posted January 9 Share Posted January 9 People are different, some are more affectionate than others, and they also express their affection differently. You can’t hope to change your girlfriend. Either you accept her level of expressed affection, or you find it insufficient for you, and then the only solution is to break up with her and find someone who’d be more similar to you in terms of expressing their feelings. Link to post Share on other sites
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