Author Sunshine005 Posted January 13 Author Share Posted January 13 8 hours ago, Gebidozo said: Of course not. But you were the one who chose to stay with him even though he was keeping your relationship in secret. Why didn’t you break up with him earlier? My fiancée’s parents are very much against me, for multiple reasons. Yet I made it very clear to her that I don’t want our relationship to be a secret. She told her parents about me only a few months after we got together. Her parents still don’t accept me, but that’s another issue. My fiancée did what she had to do, and if she hadn’t done that it would have been a dealbreaker to me. In the future, don’t enter relationships where you aren’t treated with respect. That way, hopefully you won’t be lashing out like you did. You should have broken up with your boyfriend, not hit him or be unreasonably jealous. Jealousy humiliates and degrades the jealous person themselves above all. I broke up with him for several times. He would not let go. Follow me everywhere, crying telling me he loves me. Coming to my office when he knows Im alone. Folowing me on lunch break and to the way home. He said when I want something I want to have it in eather way, but when I dont want nobody can make me. Thats why I said to his mom that I m emotionally abused and humiliated for years. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sunshine005 Posted January 13 Author Share Posted January 13 1 hour ago, stillafool said: Physical violence is unforgivable in a relationship. When a 40 year old still loses their temper to the point of inflicting violence on someone this is who they are. I don't blame your ex one bit for deleting you from everything. Coupled with the lies and the abuse I wouldn't be surprised if he never speaks to you again and I don't blame him. You might try therapy to help you with your extreme jealousy before you even think of getting into another relationship. Why did you stick around for 5 years with a man who was hiding you? That should have told you how he feels about you. I gave my answer above why I was stucked with this relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted January 13 Share Posted January 13 3 hours ago, Sunshine005 said: I gave my answer above why I was stucked with this relationship. If you were miserable in the relationship, why are you broken hearted that he ended things with you? This makes absolutely no sense Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sunshine005 Posted January 13 Author Share Posted January 13 3 minutes ago, basil67 said: If you were miserable in the relationship, why are you broken hearted that he ended things with you? This makes absolutely no sense Yes it makes sense, he ended when he wanted to end , it hurts me a lot, because when I wanted to continue he left with no trace. Link to post Share on other sites
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