over come Posted January 18 Share Posted January 18 Well here is my story was married for 25yrs with 4 children together up until about 5 months ago I divorced him. I divorced him because all these years he hasn't really contributed to his financial responsibilities. I pay all the bills everything. About a yr ago maybe 2 yrs I just kinda woke up out of whatever fog I was in that I enabled him to behave like this all these yrs. I was like wtffffg why am I the only one paying all the bills when I brought it to his attention he had a problem with it. I even offered him a great deal but still had a problem with it that's when I realized this is not what I want and the love I had for him started to diminish each day until I finally filled for divorce and he signed the papers. It's been 5 mths since I divorced him and now I can't get him out of my house. Absolutely unbelievable and then the laws don't make it no better he is not on the lease but considered a squatter so I now have to spend more money to file suit and do it thr legal way. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted January 18 Share Posted January 18 I'm so sorry you're still stuck with him How long is left on the lease? Is finding a new place and not allowing him in the door an option? Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted January 18 Share Posted January 18 Out of curiosity, what does this have to do with an affair? Maybe you'e posted in the wrong sub-forum? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted January 18 Share Posted January 18 My husband had the same problem with his ex wife. The lawyer advised that he stop paying child/spousal support until she left the home and that is what encouraged her to finally leave. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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