Ser86 Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 hello, I have some doubts about my marriage that my husband has an hidden agenda because in the past he did plenty of mistakes (seeking live females online on adult websites, arguing with me when a "female friend" that haven't spoken years reach out to him , lie and hide when he goes out with his friend, like every female post on instagram and caught him with screenshots and still lie in my face that he haven't done it ...and so on ) and now after years of mistakes I have my insecurities that i was never good enough for him as long as he sought other females, why would u keep looking for females if u chose the one to settle down? Am I thinking wrong? to me this "mistakes" shouldnt occur if his love and commitment was genuine...its decisions...recently i decided to keep the history on his safari browser and he find out a way to download firefox focus to not have a track... im devastated, i think only a person that has something to hide would do such a thing... please give me an opinion of what you think... am i wrong? thank you Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gebidozo Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 Of course you aren’t wrong. Your husband has been chronically lying, hiding stuff, and possibly cheating on you. That is not the behavior of a loving person. If he hasn’t expressed genuine remorse and is unwilling to change, perhaps divorcing him would be a viable option.   Quote Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 You really shouldn’t have to monitor your husband’s online behavior in this way. Why are you trying so hard to hold onto a man who treats you with disrespect, is dishonest and untrustworthy? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 5 hours ago, Ser86 said: Am I thinking wrong? In what world would it be wrong tp not want your own husband looking for other women? Has someone planted the idea in your mind that you should just accept this? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
MsJayne Posted January 27 Share Posted January 27 Why were you keeping a log of his browsing history? So you could present him with it? Why bother, do you really need any more evidence that he can't be trusted? 21 hours ago, Ser86 said: now after years of mistakes I have my insecurities that i was never good enough for him as long as he sought other females You've got that the wrong way 'round, it's actually he who is not good enough for you. The fact that he spends time sleazing around the internet perving at other women and doing God knows what else is not a reflection on you, it's a reflection on him. It's nasty. Bad enough that he does it, but lying about it shows what a dumb**s he is, like he's twelve years old. If you share a computer with him I'd at least give that keyboard a good going over with Pine-O-Clean. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted January 27 Share Posted January 27 On 1/27/2025 at 12:45 AM, Ser86 said: he sought other females A woman calling other women "females"  🤔  Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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