Author seth1337 Posted February 24 Author Share Posted February 24 So a quick update everyone! She told me we were seeing each other but without the expectation of going further, so her frustration with me about apparently ghosting her is unwarranted. She also told me she has never had feelings for me, but everything she said to me wasn't a lie at the time, things like calling me her man and only having room in her life for one man and it was me. She wouldn't be upset if we stopped speaking, she would accept it and just move on. She likes my company, but doesn't want to take anything further, not just with me, but with anyone at all. Kinda hurting, because I really cared about her, especially opening up about my past and a bit about my service history. I feel like a fool for spending 8 months trying to find where I stand, but I have my answers now. Go ahead, do your worst, tell me you told me so!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted February 24 Share Posted February 24 There's no need for any 'I told you so'. We all make mistakes and we all (hopefully) learn from them. I guess the biggest lesson is next time you see a woman who's messed up, be a friend but don't consider dating her. Save yourself for women who are ready to date Also I do think she was shitty for calling you 'her man' and 'only have room for you' if she didn't see a future with you, but I guess messed up people do messed up things. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted February 24 Share Posted February 24 (edited) 2 hours ago, seth1337 said: Go ahead, do your worst, tell me you told me so!! This wouldn't be helpful. Instead, now is the time to figure out why you apparently keep doing this to yourself. You have admitted this is a pattern for you. It's time to dig deep and learn more about yourself and why you continue to hang on and igmore indications that the relationship isn't going to progress. You need to get to the bottom of why you make excuses for these women, but more importantly, why you make excuses for yourself to stick around. It's good that this particular woman was finally honest with you but you really should start taking better care of your own needs and desires and not waste so much time and energy on dead-ends. Edited February 24 by ExpatInItaly 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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