The person I fell in love with might be going to jail

[Fixhikso]

So about 3 months ago I met this wonderful girl. I fell in love so quickly and we became official right away. She is caring , sweet, honest, beautiful, caring . All the good qualities you could think of, she had . Until one day she never came home . Turns out she had a car accident where she was drunk driving . She got arrested and now faces jail time minimum of 2 years plus most likely deportation . This is her 3rd offense which makes it a felony too. I was so sad because she said she stopped drinking since years ago . Now I don’t know what to do. I love her and I feel like I can’t live without her . But at the same time I know there’s no future for us together. I live alone , have a good job, my own house . And plans to travel . And I wanted to share and do all those things with her . But know all of that is gone . I don’t know what to do. Do I leave her ? Do I stay? Do I wait? 

[NuevoYorko]

I am going to be blunt:  First of all three months is a little fast to be making life plans that 100% hinge on somebody with whom you are in the earliest stages of a relationship.

Obviously you didn't know her  as well as you thought you did, so learn from that.  She was not honest with you either.

Of course you should not wait for her to get on with your life plans.  I'm not saying block and ignore her - but if she's likely to be deported, she's out of your life in any case.  And if she is not deported - honestly there is no real healthy reason why you should hitch your wagon to a person who has such messes to deal with in her life.  

She may be a fine human being with a lot of potential but she will need to figure out how to live responsibly and get some time under their belt doing so.