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rainrhonda

I've been seeing a guy a few months now. He's a great person. He's a single dad trying to juggle work/kids and a crazy Ex, etc. There have been times it's taken him a couple days to answer a text. He's not a big texter & his messages are always pretty simple, short. He's much more outgoing in person. It makes him difficult to read, at times because his texting style makes him seem distant. He only talks about serious things in person, etc. 

 

Last Thursday I has sent him a selfie wearing lingerie. Early on, it got him excited and he would say sexy and cute!! Or something like that. This time, just a smile. I know that's not bad, I just expected something else. I asked if that means he likes it?? In a joking way.... he didn't reply, but I didn't take it personally. 

Saturday night I asked how his weekend is going & told him about something that happened Friday night..just something silly I did at home. Then I just mentioned I'll come over this week should the kids spend a night at mom's....  (he always let's me know when that happens so that we can see eachother). 

Radio silence & it's now Monday. I feel like I've gone wrong somewhere? Or maybe he's just losing interest for some other reason? Since he's not a big texter, I don't want to initiate a big convo & likely won't see him until this weekend. I don't want to sound needy and demand attention. So I've not texted since Saturday. There's all kinds of possibilities from busy with his children, to work, etc. But really? Does he realize that he left me hanging or did I do something wrong? 

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