inked1 Posted January 11, 2006 Posted January 11, 2006 i feel useless. i get depressed and feel like killing myself to stop the hurt. i broke up over a year ago, got divorced in march, was cheated on, and now i cant even muster it up to ask any ladies out, nor do i wanna go out or even look at women. i just dont know how to deal and its so damn frustrating. :confused:
Scott S Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 It is normal to feel sad & hurt after a break-up. Depression does frequently happen in the wake of a loss, whether a break-up, divorce, or death. Suicidal feelings are very serious, though. If you aren't already doing so, counseling would be in order, as well as a medical consultation to determine whether you are suffering from clinical depression. Help is available, so there is no reason to continue living with depression.
slubberdegullion Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 inked1, I can speak as someone who's been there, in exactly - and I mean EXACTLY - the same place you are now. If you're suicidal, call a crisis line. Now. Not tomorrow. Not later today. Not in 5 minutes. Immediately. Turn off the damn computer and call right freakin' now. They can help steer you in the right direction. Like Scott S said, you do not have to live like this. Trust me, I know from bitter personal experience.
Mistaken Identity Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 Hi. I agree that you should find help, too. It's not weak to need help. I was pretty devastated by my first divorce, but I got over it. Now I look back and wish I hadn't wasted so much time crying and drinking over a guy who didn't love me anyway. They say your mind can only concentrate on one thing at a time. Maybe if you find yourself thinking about your ex, you should change your thoughts to something else.
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