Author Woggle Posted January 12, 2006 Author Share Posted January 12, 2006 Yeah I'm comfortable and secure that my man only really has eyes for me!! The other stuff is just eye candy.... I'm the real deal!! See this is a secure woman. You know what it is about. Link to post Share on other sites
cygny Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 Hold up, what do you mean by this? *Weak* in what way? Please elaborate. Thanks. difficulty keeping it in their pants when the sex is offered on a plate with no strings attached and no consequences. not all men, but most, i'd say 80%. most women otoh need some kind of emotional connection first. the fact that woggle has to come on here and justify his porn habit by saying that any woman who isn't comfortable with it is insecure is just flat out laughable. but what do i expect from a guy with his attitude. whatever. and let me say that if my man looked at a 'little' porn it wouldn't be a big deal, i look at porn too. but there is a line to cross. and in any case i would definitely understand how my man might feel a little hurt that he wasn't enough for me if he was banging me every night and giving me all he had and i still had to go look at other guys' d*cks to get off. Link to post Share on other sites
lilmoma1973 Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 See this is a secure woman. You know what it is about. Women can feel secure as long as they don't have men with views like you..!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted January 12, 2006 Author Share Posted January 12, 2006 difficulty keeping it in their pants when the sex is offered on a plate with no strings attached and no consequences. not all men, but most, i'd say 80%. most women otoh need some kind of emotional connection first. the fact that woggle has to come on here and justify his porn habit by saying that any woman who isn't comfortable with it is insecure is just flat out laughable. but what do i expect from a guy with his attitude. whatever. I can keep it in my pants easily. I get offered sex all the time yet I have not once cheated since I agreed to be exclusive with my GF. If I am single I am still choosy. I don't have a porn habit. I have a few mags and if the guys are going to a strip club I will go with them. I am not obsessed with it or anything. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted January 12, 2006 Author Share Posted January 12, 2006 Women can feel secure as long as they don't have men with views like you..!!!! I have never once cheated on a woman ever so how would a woman feel insecure. If I care enough for a woman to commit to her I treat her very well. I Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 difficulty keeping it in their pants when the sex is offered on a plate with no strings attached and no consequences. not all men, but most, i'd say 80%. most women otoh need some kind of emotional connection first. Well, that makes me an exception then cuz I won't give it away to anyone I am not in a relationship with. Won't happen. I don't believe in FWBs cuz of that and I also think that it's BS that there can be *no strings and no consequences* What if the woman gets pregnant? What if one or both partners get a STD? So much for *no strings and no consequences*, right? Link to post Share on other sites
lilmoma1973 Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 I have never once cheated on a woman ever so how would a woman feel insecure. If I care enough for a woman to commit to her I treat her very well. I Treating her right isn't what im talking about at all!!! You have views of wanting to be with others when in a committed marriage and how it is the reason marriages fail because the spouse needs to be with someone every once in a while..... The reason marriages fail is because people can't keep their pants up both !!! How can woman feel secure with your views? How do they know you will be faithful? Link to post Share on other sites
cygny Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 Well, that makes me an exception then cuz I won't give it away to anyone I am not in a relationship with. Won't happen. I don't believe in FWBs cuz of that and I also think that it's BS that there can be *no strings and no consequences* What if the woman gets pregnant? What if one or both partners get a STD? So much for *no strings and no consequences*, right? condomsm, birth control pills/devices Link to post Share on other sites
littlekitty Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 See this is a secure woman. You know what it is about. True. But I'm pretty open minded for a start. And although I'm secure enough to believe that my SO using porn etc. won't ever be a huge issue in a relationship for me (unless it becomes OTT), it's worth noting that my SO makes me feel very secure in our relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 condomsm, birth control pills/devices Not 100% effective. Sorry. And the more you *beep* around, the higher the odds are of a... uh... *screwup* happening. Link to post Share on other sites
cygny Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 I can keep it in my pants easily. I get offered sex all the time yet I have not once cheated since I agreed to be exclusive with my GF. If I am single I am still choosy. I don't have a porn habit. I have a few mags and if the guys are going to a strip club I will go with them. I am not obsessed with it or anything. what ever. by your reasoning i should be able to slather over another guy's dick and shake my naked tits in his face, and if my SO feels hurt by it, i can just throw it at him that because i love him and would never actually screw the other guy without telling my SO first or maybe afterwards, SO is therefore a fricking insecure nutcase for not being totally cool with it. i mean, you guys would call me an absolute ballbuster, wouldn't you?-- and you would be right. just because some guy wouldn't mind if i did that, would that mean all men who did were uncool? wouldn't you call the cool-with-it SO an absolute WUSS? and you'd be right about that too. how insensitive can you be? you are fricked up. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted January 12, 2006 Author Share Posted January 12, 2006 what ever. by your reasoning i should be able to slather over another guy's dick and shake my naked tits in his face, and if my SO feels hurt by it, i can just throw it at him that because i love him and would never actually screw the other guy without telling my SO first or maybe afterwards, SO is therefore a fricking insecure nutcase for not being totally cool with it. i mean, you guys would call me an absolute ballbuster, wouldn't you?-- and you would be right. just because some guy wouldn't mind if i did that, would that mean all men who did were uncool? how insensitive can you be? you are fricked up. I am not pulling out my dick and showing it to any woman. I simply go and hang out with the guys sometimes at a strip club. MY gf can even come because she is like one of the guys anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
cygny Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 Not 100% effective. Sorry. And the more you *beep* around, the higher the odds are of a... uh... *screwup* happening. there are no guarantees. anyway, you sound like one in a million. good for you. Link to post Share on other sites
cygny Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 I am not pulling out my dick and showing it to any woman. I simply go and hang out with the guys sometimes at a strip club. MY gf can even come because she is like one of the guys anyway. apples and oranges. if you want to look at other girls tits then you should be fine with her shaking hers at other men. and offering to let her come to a strip club is like me asking my man if he wants to watch me shake mine at the guy. Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 MY gf can even come because she is like one of the guys anyway. THAT'S why you are with her, isn't it? She's a tomboy (as you have said earlier) so she has more in common with you and has an interest in more *manly* things, right? More like a *buddy* to you, perhaps? I'm beginning to understand this. You have issues with *traditionally feminine* women. Your hostility is directed solely at them and I think it's because you do not understand them, right? So they are *screwed up* to you. You don't have this problem with your GF because she is like one of the guys. Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 there are no guarantees. anyway, you sound like one in a million. good for you. Honestly, I think I am one of the few men left who believes in monogamy and sex only with a commitment. No FWBs, no cheating, no BS... just straight, to the point, one-on-one with the woman I love. Link to post Share on other sites
cygny Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 THAT'S why you are with her, isn't it? She's a tomboy (as you have said earlier) so she has more in common with you and has an interest in more *manly* things, right? More like a *buddy* to you, perhaps? I'm beginning to understand this. You have issues with *traditionally feminine* women. Your hostility is directed solely at them and I think it's because you do not understand them, right? So they are *screwed up* to you. You don't have this problem with your GF because she is like one of the guys. well this sounds like a useful insight. he certainly is not interested in 'understanding' but only in arguing and self-justification. Link to post Share on other sites
cygny Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 Honestly, I think I am one of the few men left who believes in monogamy and sex only with a commitment. No FWBs, no cheating, no BS... just straight, to the point, one-on-one with the woman I love. 'few men'- that is so true. most guys are just out for whatever they can get from a woman sexually and want what ever they can get from other women too. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted January 12, 2006 Author Share Posted January 12, 2006 She is like a buddy and that is why i like her. Why shouldn't you be friends with your SO? Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 well this sounds like a useful insight. Feminine women are a threat to him, it seems. Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 Why aren't people satisfied with who they are with? I am involved and I don't have any porn stash or mags and my GF doesn't have any *devices*. What is this really all about? i still had to go look at other guys' d*cks to get off. Two problems here: SOME people use porn 'instead of' having sex with their partners. That can often be because there are problems in a relationship, in which case the relationship needs to be discussed. SOME of the people who use porn 'instead of' are addicted, have intimacy problems, or have some other issue which needs to be addressed. They are NOT the majority. The rest of people who use porn do it NOT to look at the people in the pictures but to look at the acts - which allows them to fantasize about doing those acts with their own partners because, for whatever reason (tired, sick, away, etc) the partners aren't available/willing to have sex with. *sigh* I give up trying to *relate* to people. Seriously. The selfishness of people these days is just absolutely appalling. Um. There are not 6 billion people on LS all posting that all women are bxtches and that everyone should have sex with anybody they want. most guys are just out for whatever they can get from a woman sexually and want what ever they can get from other women too. Sorry, but this is just as bogus as the first post in this thread. Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 She is like a buddy and that is why i like her. Why shouldn't you be friends with your SO? Nothing wrong with being friends with your SO - my GF is my best friend and lover. We are talking about something different here... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted January 12, 2006 Author Share Posted January 12, 2006 Nothing wrong with being friends with your SO - my GF is my best friend and lover. We are talking about something different here... My type of woman is a feminine tomboy. Everybody has their type and I have mine. Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 My type of woman is a feminine tomboy. Everybody has their type and I have mine. So when you say that *women are screwed up* are you including the *feminine tomboys* in that statement? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted January 12, 2006 Author Share Posted January 12, 2006 So when you say that *women are screwed up* are you including the *feminine tomboys* in that statement? I don't mean all women but my type seems to have the least issues. Link to post Share on other sites
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