lilmoma1973 Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 Feminine women are a threat to him, it seems. Definitely agree with that Smoothie, feminine women scare him and he can't deal with them too much to handle!! Link to post Share on other sites
cygny Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 My type of woman is a feminine tomboy. Everybody has their type and I have mine. oxymoron a tomboy is a more masculine woman. otherwise she would not be called a 'tom' 'boy', get it? Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 Um. There are not 6 billion people on LS all posting that all women are bxtches and that everyone should have sex with anybody they want. Obviously. But it appears that many of the men (boys) who ARE on LS have that very mentality you spoke of. And a couple in particular are quite vocal about it. People come to this site for advice and what do they get PREDOMINATELY from the *male* side? Hmmm? Link to post Share on other sites
cygny Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 I don't mean all women but my type seems to have the least issues. what you really indicate to me here is that a tomboy is least threatening to you because she is in sync with all your masculinised views. a feminine woman threatens you and you have lots and lots of issues with women which are well documented here. Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 oxymoron a tomboy is a more masculine woman. otherwise she would not be called a 'tom' 'boy', get it? ... Rereading that, I have to agree. What exactly IS a *feminine tomboy*? The two terms seem to be contradictory to me... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted January 12, 2006 Author Share Posted January 12, 2006 oxymoron a tomboy is a more masculine woman. otherwise she would not be called a 'tom' 'boy', get it? As you can see from the pic in my profile my GF is all woman but she enjoys guy things. In the summer we go jetskiing together and she is not prissy afraid to brake a nail type. Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 what you really indicate to me here is that a tomboy is least threatening to you because she is in sync with all your masculinised views. a feminine woman threatens you and you have lots and lots of issues with women which are well documented here. DING DING DING DING DING!!! I smell a winner... Link to post Share on other sites
cygny Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 Obviously. But it appears that many of the men (boys) who ARE on LS have that very mentality you spoke of. And a couple in particular are quite vocal about it. People come to this site for advice and what do they get PREDOMINATELY from the *male* side? Hmmm? yep i agree- at first i thought people were here for advice but now i think most people are here because they want validation for their views or feelings. Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 ...i think most people are here because they want validation for their views or feelings. You're on a roll... Link to post Share on other sites
cygny Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 As you can see from the pic in my profile my GF is all woman but she enjoys guy things. In the summer we go jetskiing together and she is not prissy afraid to brake a nail type. ok so i guess what you mean by "all woman" is that she has a womanly body. but the body alone is not what makes a woman feminine, it is her views and emotional makeup and feminine perspective on things that makes a woman. i am not knocking tomboys but if a woman would rather preserve her manicure than going jetskiing, why does that make her full of 'issues'? if a guy would rather work on his car than go with me to chickflick, can i claim that he has 'issues'? do you require that your woman be exactly like you, except for her body? Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 ok so i guess what you mean by "all woman" is that she has a womanly body. Yeah, I suppose it helps for her to have the T & A and the pussy, right? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted January 12, 2006 Author Share Posted January 12, 2006 ok so i guess what you mean by "all woman" is that she has a womanly body. but the body alone is not what makes a woman feminine, it is her views and emotional makeup and feminine perspective on things that makes a woman. i am not knocking tomboys but if a woman would rather preserve her manicure than going jetskiing, why does that make her full of 'issues'? What I mean by feminine tomboy is that she is not all butch and masculine acting but she canstill hang out with the guys. She is not all prissy and she does tend to be more logical than most women. Link to post Share on other sites
lilmoma1973 Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 What I mean by feminine tomboy is that she is not all butch and masculine acting but she canstill hang out with the guys. She is not all prissy and she does tend to be more logical than most women. You know Woggle the relationship is stlll new and she is going to be what she wants to be till she has you hooked and once she does she won't be like that !!! If you marry her her views will change trust me ... You will be on here telling us how she not the same once you married!!! Link to post Share on other sites
cygny Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 You know Woggle the relationship is stlll new and she is going to be what she wants to be till she has you hooked and once she does she won't be like that !!! If you marry her her views will change trust me ... You will be on here telling us how she not the same once you married!!! yep have to admit that if i was into a guy i would 'gloss' over the fact i really didn't enjoy sports etc all that much. i'd try to please him. once i got married, my real self started to be more assertive. (i'm more honest with myself and a guy now)> woggle you may have to learn to be more tolerant, if not more appreciative, of femininity. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted January 12, 2006 Author Share Posted January 12, 2006 I don't like to watch sports that much. We are both music lovers and we love to travel. Also she is not trying to snare me. She is 41 and never married so if she decides I am the one that is right for her I am sure it has to do with me and not just trying to trap a man. Link to post Share on other sites
cygny Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 I don't like to watch sports that much. We are both music lovers and we love to travel. Also she is not trying to snare me. She is 41 and never married so if she decides I am the one that is right for her I am sure it has to do with me and not just trying to trap a man. whoa did i just read this? not sure i see your logic but hey, good luck with it. Link to post Share on other sites
cygny Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 I don't like to watch sports that much. We are both music lovers and we love to travel. Also she is not trying to snare me. She is 41 and never married so if she decides I am the one that is right for her I am sure it has to do with me and not just trying to trap a man. whoa did i just read this? not sure i see your logic about why being 41 and never married makes her impervious to desiring to get married asap--i would think quite the opposite--but hey, good luck with it. Link to post Share on other sites
lilmoma1973 Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 whoa did i just read this? not sure i see your logic about why being 41 and never married makes her impervious to desiring to get married asap--i would think quite the opposite--but hey, good luck with it. Woggle if she is 41 do you actually think she will consider marry in the future highly doubt it..Why she can have her cake and eat it too!! Link to post Share on other sites
lilmoma1973 Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 [/b You said that she likes to go to the strip club with you... Why would a women want to go see another women stripping unless she is bi ? Explain this to me you aren't going to see other men.. Link to post Share on other sites
Adunaphel Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 A very interesting thread. About three years ago (which seem more like a zillion years to me:bunny: ) I used to be perfectly okay with porn, and i did not feel threatened by it in the least. I even looked at pictures of naked ladies with my boyfriend. Then my views changed, until I ended up on the other side, the "porn haters" one. I guess that what made the real difference is that a zillion years ago I assumed that men looked at porn the same way I looked at it. For curiosity's sake, to get ideas, to image your bf/gf in those situations. I also genuinely bought the "men are just turned on by the sexual acts depicted in the porn, not by the models/porn actresses" stuff. That's why I could still tolerate (read it as "I could live with, if I had to, with -perhaps- no big damage to my relationship") regular porn movies, while I'd freak out at pics of naked girls. Also, the idea of my SO looking at other women was a huge turn-off to me. Knowing that he looked at porn, it became very hard for me to fantasize about him. If i tried to fantasize about him, I'd feel a wave of resentment rise up.... the idea of fantasizing about him while he might be masturbating looking at other women turned me off, because it was hurtful. I felt like "why on earth can't he fantasize about me, too?" I also felt that anything I did to look nicer to him (from shaving my legs to buying sexy underwear:bunny: ) was like throwing pearls before swine. I would think, "why am I here wasting time and money I could spend in so many funnier ways for someone who would look at other naked women anyway?" cygny, lilmoma1973, I loved your posts. SmoochieFace, it's great to know there are guys like you around! Link to post Share on other sites
lilmoma1973 Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 A very interesting thread. About three years ago (which seem more like a zillion years to me:bunny: ) I used to be perfectly okay with porn, and i did not feel threatened by it in the least. I even looked at pictures of naked ladies with my boyfriend. Then my views changed, until I ended up on the other side, the "porn haters" one. I guess that what made the real difference is that a zillion years ago I assumed that men looked at porn the same way I looked at it. For curiosity's sake, to get ideas, to image your bf/gf in those situations. I also genuinely bought the "men are just turned on by the sexual acts depicted in the porn, not by the models/porn actresses" stuff. That's why I could still tolerate (read it as "I could live with, if I had to, with -perhaps- no big damage to my relationship") regular porn movies, while I'd freak out at pics of naked girls. Also, the idea of my SO looking at other women was a huge turn-off to me. Knowing that he looked at porn, it became very hard for me to fantasize about him. If i tried to fantasize about him, I'd feel a wave of resentment rise up.... the idea of fantasizing about him while he might be masturbating looking at other women turned me off, because it was hurtful. I felt like "why on earth can't he fantasize about me, too?" I also felt that anything I did to look nicer to him (from shaving my legs to buying sexy underwear:bunny: ) was like throwing pearls before swine. I would think, "why am I here wasting time and money I could spend in so many funnier ways for someone who would look at other naked women anyway?" cygny, lilmoma1973, I loved your posts. SmoochieFace, it's great to know there are guys like you around! Thanks now if we can get Woggle to see but i highly doubt it!! Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 SmoochieFace, it's great to know there are guys like you around! Oh, we're out there... just have to seek us out! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
chrissy123 Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 I find that the more secure a woman is within herself the more secure she is with porn and strip clubs .......I am very secure with myself I just find it disgusting to have some stripper rubbing all over my man. I am the only one who should be doing that. To each their own but I just don't see it as a big deal. I even think that every now and then married couple should let their spouse go out and get laid by another person as long as they don't bring them home. It coule be like a card they cash in. It would save a lot of marriages. .......wow..just wow I really don't even know how to respond to that. I really hope your kidding and if you aren't I really feel sorry for whoever you are involved with. If you gotta get laid by another person to save your marriage then I think its time you get divorced. If I am fine with it and my gf is fine with it how is it wrong .....It is ok for you and your gf, but don't judge other women who have a problem with their bf getting nasty p***y and fake tits rubbed all over them. Link to post Share on other sites
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