ProjectSlug Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 Well, for the last week and a half, i have been having dreams of a girl i find attractive in my english class. Like me, she is shy and doesnt really say anything in class. I dont have the confidence really to try and get to know her, but its been growing slowly through the dreams ive been having. Is it logical to try and get to know a girl you find attractive because of dreams involving her? has anyone else ever experienced this? Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 its logical to try and contact wit the girl you find attractive because : a) the girls damn fine, so obviously you want to be with her b) she might be like you or somewhat close to being your "perfect match" c) you like her enough to actually dream it, so do it d) if she likes you its a bonus, if not well at least you aint gonna be kicking yourself for not trying when you're 30. Link to post Share on other sites
DevinWolfe Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 I definitely agree here. You owe it to yourself to try to get to know her better. Let things progress and if it devolps into a relationship then it could be great. Dont let the opportunity pass you by, just stroll over to her some time after class and talk to her casually. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ProjectSlug Posted January 13, 2006 Author Share Posted January 13, 2006 ya, i guess ive got nothing to lose. just kinda seemed wierd and ususally i meet girls through friends and such. i realize it works out because i leave school 2 classes early, and she does too, and we have the same last class together, might as well start there >< Link to post Share on other sites
DevinWolfe Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 Sounds good, but make certain she is available before the conversations go too far. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ProjectSlug Posted January 13, 2006 Author Share Posted January 13, 2006 ya, thats always the hard part but im kinda shy, im not gonna just start out, its gonna take awhile, im just gonna start talkin to her. ask if she wants a ride home or sumthin, cuz she walks and i drive. Link to post Share on other sites
DevinWolfe Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 Good plan, but, better than just a ride home how about a "bite to eat" or something of that nature. Something that will give you a way to be around her and talk to her. Make sure she knows that you're interested. Link to post Share on other sites
Admiral Thrawn Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 Well, for the last week and a half, i have been having dreams of a girl i find attractive in my english class. Like me, she is shy and doesnt really say anything in class. I dont have the confidence really to try and get to know her, but its been growing slowly through the dreams ive been having. Is it logical to try and get to know a girl you find attractive because of dreams involving her? has anyone else ever experienced this? I could only venture an idea to be part of her inner circle of friends, or get to know her best friend(s), get chummy with them, and sort of try to get into her 'crowd'. Usually people have a circle of friends in these kind of classes and are not completely alone, especially if she is attractive. The rationale of this, is since you dont like her friends romantically, it is easy for you to approach them and start talking to them, or just join in to an existing conversation. Or, another idea, is since you are in the same English class, you can try to get her number as a social contact, you know, in case she is absent from class and needs to catch up on something, or you are, it is always a good-idea to exchange numbers. Try to get a few other numbers as well, and make it look like you are collecting a few numbers so its not so conspicious. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ProjectSlug Posted January 13, 2006 Author Share Posted January 13, 2006 well, admiral, ive actually never seen her talk or hang out with any other people (i only see her walking to class, in my class, and when she walks home and i haul ass down the street). im just trying to break the ice right now, and not really worrying about anything past that. once i get passed that, then i can do that kind of stuff if she actually wants to spend time with me as a friend, more than a friend, or not. Link to post Share on other sites
ddnnee Posted January 14, 2006 Share Posted January 14, 2006 i dream of this one girl often enough that it is getting boring. I gathered my balls together and told her how i felt and got rejected... about two years ago... but i still see her in my dreams till today. I don't worry too much because if i ever meet another girl, she will be my dreams. Link to post Share on other sites
W29 Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 Hi, I'm new here, 17, and I've had a crush on a girl for 2 years now. She's very pretty and popular. For about 4 months now she's been giving me these quick glances with her big pretty eyes and then quickly turns away. Does this mean she likes me? and how do should I meet with her? She's in another grade and is in none of my classes however I know of a common interest, we both like Physics. We are both shy and I need to make a move or she'll give up on me. If I make a wrong move though, I know it will be over. I need to make a perfect move to meet with her and I have no experience with this. Please Help Me!! Link to post Share on other sites
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