Isadora Posted August 9, 2001 Share Posted August 9, 2001 Would you marry a woman who cannot support herself or her own lifestyle? I mean she might not lead a very extravagant lifestyle but at the same time, all her money is for her own spending and she will not contribute to the future family Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted August 9, 2001 Share Posted August 9, 2001 YOU ASK: "Would you marry a woman who cannot support herself or her own lifestyle?" A person's financial status is not permanent. People move on, further their education, get experience, improve jobs, etc. all the time. Some men want a woman who can stay home and take care of the kids and house. Most men who have the means like this idea. But a man can lose his job at any moment in this day so there is no financial or job security even with the guys with the big paying jobs. As a matter of fact, a man who is employed by a company nowadays is less secure the more money he makes. Most companies start at the top management level when they downsize. If a man loves a woman, her financial status will not be a major factor in most cases. On the other hand, a woman seeks a man who can support her and her future children and she is not likely to overlook quite as much in this department...in most cases. Most men would not marry a woman who was selfish and unwilling to make a contribution of the little money she had to a cause associated with the marriage, unless they are just plain stupid and lovesick. There are some like that out there. Link to post Share on other sites
dj Posted August 9, 2001 Share Posted August 9, 2001 If love is there then there is no cocideration of the persons financial status. Real love can suvive under enormous conditions, a low income, comparitivly, is not such a large obstical at all. I wouldn't worry about it! Link to post Share on other sites
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