Kimbles Posted January 15, 2006 Share Posted January 15, 2006 I have a dilemma. I am in a new relationship - long distance at that. I have recently relaised that my behavior was an addiction and not normal "real" love behavior. I am an AA memeber, so I am familiar with the emotional trauma of an addiction and now I can understand why I have been feeling certain ways. Very briefly now I am in a dilemma: For example my boyfriend has not called or emailed for a few days, granted he has serious work emergencies and is wroking round the clocjk and sleeping at work for the time being due to weather related disaters, but I am wondering if my FEAR is the addiction or if it is a red flag - lack of interest etc. How does one know the difference between the two? Please help! I really want to learn and grow and be able to have a normal, healthy long lasting relationship. KIM Link to post Share on other sites
magda Posted January 15, 2006 Share Posted January 15, 2006 I've heard a lot of good things about the book, "He's Just Not That Into You." http://www2.oprah.com/tows/booksseen/200409/tows_book_20040922_behrendttruccillo.jhtml Here's a nother site that might help: http://loveaddicts.org/ Link to post Share on other sites
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