my mum is cheating on my step dad

[mommy rocks]

they have been going out with each other for 11 years nearly so maybe she is bored

but 2 nights in a row my step dads mate has come round when he is not in and last night i asked him if he ws coming round tomorow and he said no and i now know why because my step dad will be at home.

 

and when i was sitting down stairs with them she kept on shouting at me telling me to go upstairs to bed

well when my mum and her new lover thought i was asleep they had sex and i have found morning after pills in her draws and she said to me that she doesnt have her periods anymore because she has the injection to stop them so she is obviolsly lying to me.

 

well wat do u think should i tell my step dad or just forget about it ?

[EMJ]

That's their relationship. They are adults and need to figure things out for themselves. I think you could ony make things worse. This could have been going on for a lot longer than you know. And where is your stepdad? He could be having his own affair for all you know. Maybe they have an unspoken agreement, you just never know.

 

Since you have already confronted your mother and she does not want to discuss it, don't think there's much you can do. You are living in her house. If you are old enough to move out you might want to consider it. If she's supporting you financially you don't have a lot of say in how she lives her life. Hurting you stepdad might force a separation. Do you think that's a good solution? Think very hard before you say anything. It's really between the two of them. Best wishes and Good Luck.

[mommy rocks]

thank you i think i will keep quiet

my step dad 's dad is in hospital so he is looking after his mum untill his dad is out og hospital

[EMJ]

I know it's hard. But you are doing the right thing. If he's going to be hurt, it should come from the source of the hurt. This way your relationship with him will be good even if they have problems. Best wishes.

[mommy rocks]

thank you so much :)

[rude dude]

What if you tell this guy to spend his time elsewhere because he is messing up your family? Tell him to leave your family alone before you blow the whitsle. A mere threat of this can stop it. If she gunna leave your step dad, she will leave him anyway, regardless of your actions.