lilmoma1973 Posted January 15, 2006 Share Posted January 15, 2006 What is wrong with women that they can tell their own child that they are fat? My ss isn't fat at all in fact he could stand to gain some weight ..He wrestles and tries to make weight all the time .. His bio mom had the nerve to tell him he is fat and he isn't this was told to my h by mil!! I can't believe someone would tell their child that ..She really has no room to talk her teeth are all rotten and she looks like she has aids from all the crack she has taken ..I also heard that she got fired from her job because she was spilling drinks all over the customers and they thought she was either high or drunk!! Why do some parents use abusive words toward their children ? Wouldn't this be very harmful to their self esteem ? Link to post Share on other sites
Mz. Pixie Posted January 16, 2006 Share Posted January 16, 2006 If she's addicted to crack then I'm not suprised by her other behavior. People shouldn't have kids when they can't take care of themselves. Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted January 16, 2006 Share Posted January 16, 2006 Parents act out because they are screwed up. Clearly this woman is seriously screwed up so it's kind of crazy to expect her to act like a normal person and a good mom. So sm needs to be sure she is very supportive of the boy and is sure to praise him for his accomplishments often. Parents can do damage, yes, but if a kid has a supportive and loving adult in his life, that can greatly mitigate against the damage the parent does. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lilmoma1973 Posted January 17, 2006 Author Share Posted January 17, 2006 If she's addicted to crack then I'm not suprised by her other behavior. People shouldn't have kids when they can't take care of themselves. Your right Pixie never thought about that it is just down right mean and abusive for her to say such things to her own child!! She says he is her baby and wouldn't let noone hurt him and if they did she would kick their butt.. Look at what hurt she is doing to him.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lilmoma1973 Posted January 17, 2006 Author Share Posted January 17, 2006 Parents act out because they are screwed up. Clearly this woman is seriously screwed up so it's kind of crazy to expect her to act like a normal person and a good mom. So sm needs to be sure she is very supportive of the boy and is sure to praise him for his accomplishments often. Parents can do damage, yes, but if a kid has a supportive and loving adult in his life, that can greatly mitigate against the damage the parent does. That is what i am here for Outcast , i always support him in what he does ..Now i know why he has been worrying about his weight so much thought it was for wrestling clearly it was cause mom was telling him he was fat when that is futher from the truth.. Link to post Share on other sites
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