ShortFuze Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 Well it's almost Valentines Day, so I'm hoping to get a date by then. I'm attracted to 2 girls, but I haven't approached them about it yet. 1 girl that I'm attracted to - works in the same building with me but we hardly ever see each other. But when we do we sometimes chat for a few minutes or atleast say "hi, how's it going." I'm afraid to ask her out because I'm of course afraid of rejection and the whole building could find out about the rejection. I wouldn't be able to go to work again. The 2nd girl I'm attracted to, I really don't know her. She works as a cash register at a store so thats the only time I see her. My question is, how do you talk to a girl that works in a store? Wouldn't it be awkard? Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted January 20, 2006 Share Posted January 20, 2006 My question is, how do you talk to a girl that works in a store? Wouldn't it be awkard? Yes it would be very awkward & it's more likely she'll say no. I'm afraid to ask her out because I'm of course afraid of rejection and the whole building could find out about the rejection. Don't be a wuss - if you want to ask her out then do it (but don't make it a Valentine's date, just something casual like coffee). If she says no - big deal, at least you tried & it was only for a coffee. I wouldn't be able to go to work again. Of course you would. Link to post Share on other sites
slubberdegullion Posted January 20, 2006 Share Posted January 20, 2006 Double your pleasure Double your fun Get yourself two chicks Instead of just one Link to post Share on other sites
Author ShortFuze Posted January 21, 2006 Author Share Posted January 21, 2006 My question is, how do you talk to a girl that works in a store? Wouldn't it be awkard? Yes it would be very awkward & it's more likely she'll say no. I'm afraid to ask her out because I'm of course afraid of rejection and the whole building could find out about the rejection. Don't be a wuss - if you want to ask her out then do it (but don't make it a Valentine's date, just something casual like coffee). If she says no - big deal, at least you tried & it was only for a coffee. I wouldn't be able to go to work again. Of course you would. Thanks for your response. Yea i figured the girl at the store would feel awkard and most likely say no. If I did ask her and she said no, I would probably never go to that store again. haha. But with the girl at work, its a little bit harder just cause we both work there and we work there 5 days a week. I was thinking about sending her flowers from a secret admier for valentine's day but then asking her out. Would this be a good idea? Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted January 22, 2006 Share Posted January 22, 2006 But with the girl at work, its a little bit harder just cause we both work there and we work there 5 days a week. I was thinking about sending her flowers from a secret admier for valentine's day but then asking her out. Would this be a good idea? I think it depends on the how well you know her & if you think she would appreciate that kind of thing. But I think it's also kind of a mine field in terms of obligation. What if she doesn't want to go out with you and says no? Or worse, feels she has to say yes just 'cause you went to the trouble with the flowers? Personally, I would leave that kind of a romantic gesture until you got to know her a bit better. Besides, if you're worried about people talking at work, then sending flowers, anonymously or not, will only bring more attention to yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
malachai Posted January 22, 2006 Share Posted January 22, 2006 My question is, how do you talk to a girl that works in a store? Wouldn't it be awkard? It doesn't have to be. But if you go from complete strangers to you asking her out, then yeah it'd probably be awkward. But you have the benefit of knowing you can take it slower than that, since she works there. If you can chat her up a little bit each time you go in the store, then it would be a lot less awkward when you do ask her out. Just start out by asking for her help - e.g. if she works in a retail store, have her help you find something then go from there. Link to post Share on other sites
amerikajin Posted January 22, 2006 Share Posted January 22, 2006 threesome. Link to post Share on other sites
realeve20 Posted January 22, 2006 Share Posted January 22, 2006 Well it's almost Valentines Day, so I'm hoping to get a date by then. I'm attracted to 2 girls, but I haven't approached them about it yet. 1 girl that I'm attracted to - works in the same building with me but we hardly ever see each other. But when we do we sometimes chat for a few minutes or atleast say "hi, how's it going." I'm afraid to ask her out because I'm of course afraid of rejection and the whole building could find out about the rejection. I wouldn't be able to go to work again. The 2nd girl I'm attracted to, I really don't know her. She works as a cash register at a store so thats the only time I see her. My question is, how do you talk to a girl that works in a store? Wouldn't it be awkard? You are attracted to two women; sinces you are in such an difficult situation! Try dating both of them and see which relationship is stronger; hopefully they do not know each other, see each other, and hopefully ywon't get caught by one of the two. Link to post Share on other sites
realeve20 Posted January 22, 2006 Share Posted January 22, 2006 You are attracted to two women; sinces you are in such an difficult situation! Try dating both of them and see which relationship is stronger; hopefully they do not know each other, see each other, and hopefully ywon't get caught by one of the two. Link to post Share on other sites
realeve20 Posted January 22, 2006 Share Posted January 22, 2006 Well it's almost Valentines Day, so I'm hoping to get a date by then. I'm attracted to 2 girls, but I haven't approached them about it yet. 1 girl that I'm attracted to - works in the same building with me but we hardly ever see each other. But when we do we sometimes chat for a few minutes or atleast say "hi, how's it going." I'm afraid to ask her out because I'm of course afraid of rejection and the whole building could find out about the rejection. I wouldn't be able to go to work again. The 2nd girl I'm attracted to, I really don't know her. She works as a cash register at a store so thats the only time I see her. My question is, how do you talk to a girl that works in a store? Wouldn't it be awkard? You are attracted to two women; sinces you are in such an difficult situation! Try dating both of them and see which relationship is stronger; hopefully they do not know each other, see each other, and hopefully ywon't get caught by one of the two. Link to post Share on other sites
Gator762 Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 Just remember if you never ask them out, it will never happen! It's easy to tell someone else, but you just gotta work on your confidence. Work on recognizing your strengths. Once you really believe in yourself as a person, the confidence will come. Then just go up and talk to them. Engage in some small talk first before asking them out. If you just walk up and ask them cold turkey for a date, it ain't gonna work unless you are drop-dead handsome and can get away with that. Link to post Share on other sites
reddog63 Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 Act like a woman..........choose the one that makes more money!!!!! And/or .......decide based on how likely each one will get heavier in the next five years....... Link to post Share on other sites
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