a6usia Posted January 20, 2006 Share Posted January 20, 2006 Hi Everybody!I read a lot on this LS page and I found out many interesting things.But it's my first post here. The thing is that I know this boy for over four years,it's like we've always been into eachother,we enjoyed talking,spandin' time together,there was some kissin' and huggin' and sometimes even more than that.But he always had some girlfriend,and we never had a chance to be together as a couple.'Till last November...we decided to try.I was so happy because I wanted it so badly for all this time.I think I'm in love with him since our first talk.So we've been together for about month,everything was great,we've had so much fun...and then all of the sudden he broke up with me. He said that he doesn't know what he is feelin' for me,he loves me but it's not enough to be with me,that in the future we probobly be together but not now.Then after about a month not being together he started to date his exgirlfriend(the one he was with before me).I don't know what to do,I love him so much and I want to be with him-but he's with her right now.I know there is some special connection between me and him and he will never forget me.He's my only friend,my best friend and I love him(and I am his best friend too)!We're not together for about two months and I'm doin' NC for 3 days now and it's kinda hard for me 'cause 'till now we talked to eachother everyday.He called me yesterday but I didn't answer the phone.Please tell me what to do.I want him so bad. I don't want to do NC cause it's makin' me crazy! PS.Sorry if I did some mistakes but my english is probobly not perfect (I'm Polish) Help me please! Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted January 20, 2006 Share Posted January 20, 2006 Right now he doesn't want to 'be' with you. The question is can you handle just being friends, because that seems to be all that he wants. If it's hurting you this bad then it will be impossible for you to remain friends. I would recommend sticking to No Contact. If his feelings for you are to change then he really has to see what life is like without you. That's the only real benefit to NC in regards to bringing someone else back. The MAIN reason for NC is to allow yourself to heal. The longer you remain in contact with someone who doesn't want to be with you the longer you hang on to hope and thus, the longer it takes to heal and get over them. Implement NC to help you get over him. If you feel that you can separate your love for him from friendship then you can remain in contact. But do realize your feelings are at stake and him not returning your love will only keep you down longer. Link to post Share on other sites
Author a6usia Posted January 20, 2006 Author Share Posted January 20, 2006 You know CaliGuy we are friends all the time,we're talking,meeting and stuff but I want more...I know I can't make a pressure on him because I can lose him but I just can't change the way I feel!About two hours ago I broke NC (it lasted 3 days). He wrote to me and I wrote him back.He asked me why I didn't answered his calls and stuff.He said that he wants to be in contact with me all the time and I want it too (because this NC thing is really killin' me)It's hard to not speak to him.He said that he will come to my place next week (cause right now he just can't because he's workin' a lot and has some exams at school) and I just can't wait until then.I didn't see him for few days and I just miss him so much!!I'm wondering right now what I will tell him when I see him.Should I tell him how much I love him and that I still want to be with him??Or just let it go and keep it to myself and see what the future brings??Cause right now he thinks that I wanna be only friends with him. He thinks that I got over him.But I didn't! Link to post Share on other sites
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