Pari Posted August 9, 1998 Share Posted August 9, 1998 I have fall in love with him at the very first sight. when I graduate from university three years ago. We worked together then, and I am sure that he really like me, however, I am not sure whether his emotion toward me is love or not. I am 7 or 8 years younger than him, he might regard me as a child. He invites me to dinner, and wold thanks me if I accept his kindness. If I need help, he would offer his hands... but he don't call me often, though I hinted that it is a pleasure for me to talk with him... I don't know what to do with my dreamboat. Can you help me? Link to post Share on other sites
Ryan Posted August 11, 1998 Share Posted August 11, 1998 The idea of love at first sight may be noble and dreamy, but it is truly naive. True emotional connection does not happen nearly so quickly or easily. You say that you are notably younger, I'd have to know what the ages are more specifically to see if that is a big gap. Since you say you have already graduated from a university, I would place you somewhere in your mid-twenties. I guess he is in his early thirties. This isn't TOO big of a deal, but you may both be at different positions in your life. He may be looking for different things out of a relationship at this point. You might want to just sit down and talk to him about it. I can't say whether or not he feels the same way, but if you don't be honest to yourself and him you will be wrestling around with the feelings inside yourself and that is not a good idea. Have a serious talk with him. Even if he does not reciprocate, the friendship can thrive quite fully. It may involve into a romance later down the road, you never know.... Link to post Share on other sites
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