MH66 Posted January 21, 2006 Share Posted January 21, 2006 I met this guy online--personal ads. He lives in a little town about 100 miles away (relatively insignificant to some of you who have LDRs that span continents) We had nice e-mail exchanges and phone chats and since we both have relatively flexible work schedules, we arranged to be in the same city to meet for drinks/dinner after work. We had an awesome time and plan to have another date soon--like tomorrow evening. I don't feel comfortable about him coming to my town for an evening thing because I don't want him staying in my house. I mean come on, I hardly know the guy ( I should have suggested a hotel when he mentioned crashing on my couch ) There's nothing much in his town (evening activities/hotels) so I don't really want to go to his turf--at least not at this early stage. I just don't think it would be safe. So how do you propose managing this budding relationship--continue meeting in the middle for a while? He seems eager to come here, has not suggested that I go there. Is this good or bad? On its face, it appears he wants to be considerate. But could he be wanting to get away because he has a wife at home? (with his line of work it would be easy to explain an overnight trip, even on a weekend.) So, Oh Wise Ones, I throw myself at your mercy for some guidance. Link to post Share on other sites
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