figgurinoutlife Posted January 21, 2006 Share Posted January 21, 2006 My ex and I aren't on speaking terms right now, she is mad at me for thinking I lied about an incident (long story). We were off and on for a year, then have "tried" to remain friends for another, so I have known her for 2 years. She confesed she was still in love w/me last Oct. but she is with someone else. Anyways I have not talked to her since she was yelling and screaming to me on the phone, then she hung up. That was 9 days ago. She has not tried to call me and I have not tried to call her since that heated conversation. This girl even though she is with someone else would call almost everyday, and occasionally stop by, tell me she misses me, loves me, wants to be w/me (but doesn't do anything about it). We loved each other very much, but I am now fed up with her mixed signals and not wanting to deal with it anymore, so now I am not calling her either. Anyways my main question is her b-day is next Friday and I am wondering if I should call and wish her happy b-day even though she's pissed at me. Would she be even more pissed off if I blew it off, or would she think "maybe I need to quit playing my ex, cause he is serious." Anyways if you were mad at your ex and they decided not to call or write on you b-day, how would you feel (if you still cared about your ex). Link to post Share on other sites
gfto Posted January 21, 2006 Share Posted January 21, 2006 There are no mixed signals here. She dumped you, and she's in the arms of another guy! Cut off contact, forget the birthday, and move on with your life. Link to post Share on other sites
pippen_2k Posted January 21, 2006 Share Posted January 21, 2006 As blunt as it sounds, gfto is right. Probably better off being on no-speaking terms, at least you can get over her fatser. Link to post Share on other sites
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