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My boyfriend said he doesn't want an engagement band yet..I said why and he said he doesn't want to talk about it..?

 

someone explain this. Please.

 

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Worried7

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Mistaken Identity

Engagement band for men? Is this a new thing or am I really that out of touch?

 

Are you two engaged? If so, do you have an engagement ring? Who pays for the man's ring? How does a man's engagement band differ from a wedding band? Does he wear them both on the same hand? Switch one to the other hand?

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clandestinidad

I'm lost on this one.....

 

unless you meant "he doesnt want to give me an engagement band yet"

 

?????

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A wedding band. He said he doesn't want to wear one until we're moved in together. I asked why not and he got nervous and snapped saying I don't want to talk about it. So with that being said, I wonder if there is someone else b/c he doesn't want to wear one yet? Why not ? it just doesn't make sense..and he wont' even try to come up with a reason..Oh, well. I'm just going to quit worrying about it so much..it does sound a little fishy though why he doesn't want a wedding band?

 

Love, Worried7

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some men just don't like them, no reason, they just don't. it's no big deal.

 

it's a huge leap to think he could have someone else.

 

if that WERE the case, and he doesn't want you to suspect him, don't you think he'd be more likely to wear a ring to keep you happy and then slip it off when he leaves the house...?

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