What should I do??

[Fujiwara]

At first, Since I am international students, my english can not good to everyone, I am sorry for that !!

 

I was supposed to have a school trip from CA to MA last Friday. I arrived the airport at 8:00 pm. However, I received a call from MA telling me that there man in charged was in hospital. I cancelled the trip and prepared to have dinner in airport before I home. Then, I met one of my schoolmates in the food court that I haven't seen for years. Later at about 11:00 pm, I left the airport. I was too tired and forgot to tell my gf I was still in CA. In addition, I wanted to give her some surprise that I went straight to her home. She wasn't there and the call had been diverted to mailbox. I was quite disappointed and headed home

 

Light was still on in my apartment, and I though I was sp absent-minded. Then I heard some strange noise coming from my home. I tried to open the door but it was locked inside. 5 minutes later, a man and my gf let me in telling me that they were on some internet games and didn't figure I was outside. OK, I accepted their excuse..but I found a used a condom still floating in my toliet bowl..

 

What should I do??

[Miss Mojo]

hi fujiwara,

 

obviously what you saw was a great shock to you. i'm sorry you had to see what you saw.

 

i think you should immediately confront your girlfriend and tell her that you saw a used condom in the toilet bowl. tell her you don't want excuses, you want the truth because that is what you deserve. the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. this whole situation is very suspicious indeed.

 

obviously, people do not need to use condoms to play games on the internet. obviously they were not making water bombs out of this condom. if no other men live at your house, then it's quite obvious something was going on that your girlfriend is not being honest about.

 

there is no doubt that she knows where this condom came from.

 

you really have no option other than to confront her now. if you don't confront her, you may be wasting your time with someone who doesn't know how to be loyal and faithful to you. wouldn't you rather find out the truth than drive yourself mad wondering what happened?

 

if she has been cheating on you, which you do not deserve, then you can decide what you would like to do after that. my guess is, you would dump her sorry butt if she confesses to cheating on you, and move on to an honest girl with a bit of class.

 

best wishes