eric Posted August 16, 1999 Share Posted August 16, 1999 hi i have been going out with my girlfriend for a year and a half and we just broke up.actually she dumped me she said that i was unemotionally available for her the thing that confuses me is that fine we break up ok we can be friends but not like the same as when we were going out.i mean we do all the same things as when we were going out but kiss and have sex she still takes me with her where ever she goes i see her family with her and everything. i asked her can we go out and she said that she can't see marrying me but if she can't see marrying me why does she take me to her family reunions and to wedings. i want her back but how do i tell her that i love her without being pushy i wrote her a note but still the same thing. i love her and i want to marry her but what do i do next do i wear my feelings on my sleve of do i just keep doing what i'm doing and let fate handle it? help me please thanx confused guy Link to post Share on other sites
Dee Posted August 16, 1999 Share Posted August 16, 1999 hi i have been going out with my girlfriend for a year and a half and we just broke up.actually she dumped me she said that i was unemotionally available for her the thing that confuses me is that fine we break up ok we can be friends but not like the same as when we were going out.i mean we do all the same things as when we were going out but kiss and have sex she still takes me with her where ever she goes i see her family with her and everything. i asked her can we go out and she said that she can't see marrying me but if she can't see marrying me why does she take me to her family reunions and to wedings. i want her back but how do i tell her that i love her without being pushy i wrote her a note but still the same thing. i love her and i want to marry her but what do i do next do i wear my feelings on my sleve of do i just keep doing what i'm doing and let fate handle it? help me please thanx confused guy It's obivous if you are still doing much of the same things together.She still wants to be with you.Maybe you should take things a little bit slower,maybe things are going to fast for her.You don't say your ages but if your both young you have all the time in the world. Link to post Share on other sites
nikki Posted August 16, 1999 Share Posted August 16, 1999 hi well sometimes it's hard to go back the way it use to be...i dated a guy for a year and a half and we tried to be friends but we couldn't....but it is good that you are being her friend....but if it is meant to be it will happen...but if she is tagging you along only because she is lonely then she needs to tell you....but you really need to set down and talk to her about it....that would be the best thing believe me.....communication is the key....... hi i have been going out with my girlfriend for a year and a half and we just broke up.actually she dumped me she said that i was unemotionally available for her the thing that confuses me is that fine we break up ok we can be friends but not like the same as when we were going out.i mean we do all the same things as when we were going out but kiss and have sex she still takes me with her where ever she goes i see her family with her and everything. i asked her can we go out and she said that she can't see marrying me but if she can't see marrying me why does she take me to her family reunions and to wedings. i want her back but how do i tell her that i love her without being pushy i wrote her a note but still the same thing. i love her and i want to marry her but what do i do next do i wear my feelings on my sleve of do i just keep doing what i'm doing and let fate handle it? help me please thanx confused guy Link to post Share on other sites
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