sparkle & fade Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 Alright…..Now what the H is going on here??? Yesterday my man was working. His cousin was over the house visiting the rest of the family. Well he sat down and started talking to me about his woes in his life and drastically the conversation shifted from him to me and my man… The cousin alluded to the fact that I had been cheating on my man!!!! He kept giving me that “Who are you trying to fool, the whole world knows its true” look… I asked him if he was nuts, that I would never do something like that. But he kept going on saying that I can trust him and that its not like he is going to tell him, being really persistent. What is going on?????? Why would cousin and everyone else have this idea??? I don’t do anything but work and clean the damn house…. Link to post Share on other sites
clandestinidad Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 Thats bizarre....hows your relationship w/ your mother in law?? How's your relationship w/ your husband?? Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 Alright…..Now what the H is going on here??? Yesterday my man was working. His cousin was over the house visiting the rest of the family. Well he sat down and started talking to me about his woes in his life and drastically the conversation shifted from him to me and my man… The cousin alluded to the fact that I had been cheating on my man!!!! He kept giving me that “Who are you trying to fool, the whole world knows its true” look… I asked him if he was nuts, that I would never do something like that. But he kept going on saying that I can trust him and that its not like he is going to tell him, being really persistent. What is going on?????? Why would cousin and everyone else have this idea??? I don’t do anything but work and clean the damn house…. sounds like the cousin was hoping you would admit to cheating so he could make a move on you. Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 sounds like the cousin was hoping you would admit to cheating so he could make a move on you. Either that or he's acting on instruction from your husband to try & find something out. Tell your husband about it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sparkle & fade Posted January 23, 2006 Author Share Posted January 23, 2006 Funny thing is, I dont think he would tell my man if I were cheating on him........but the point is I never ever have and I never would..... And I know for sure he is not acting on instruction because I am forbidden to talk to this cousin and especially not the type of convo we were having...if I were to tell him I was talking with cousin and cousin said this he would blow up, he would tell me "i told you not to talk to him" and "why were you even listening to him in the first place" DO you think maybe my man has been telling everyone that I have been cheating on him???????????? Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 And I know for sure he is not acting on instruction because I am forbidden to talk to this cousin and especially not the type of convo we were having... Your husband forbids you?! I find that strange. Even so, why were you talking to him then? Why aren't you supposed to talk to him? I guess your husband knows his cousin is a s*** stirrer. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sparkle & fade Posted January 23, 2006 Author Share Posted January 23, 2006 He doesnt want me to talk to him for good reason. As you said blue chocolate, he is a s*** stirrer, constantly fanning flames back and forth...but mostly spiteful petty crap to cause problems in our relationship But for some reason i think he was telling the truth about this one, i had a feeling but why oh why would he say that?? has my man been telling people i cheat because he himself does?? Link to post Share on other sites
TUDOR Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 sounds like the cousin was hoping you would admit to cheating so he could make a move on you. I think Tink has the right idea here. Sounds like a fishing trip on his part and he is just trying to get your thoughts on cheating to see if you will play ball. Link to post Share on other sites
clandestinidad Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 Or his cousin has mental problems and your husband doesnt want you associating with him Or your mother in law or someone you have bad feelings between is starting $hit Or...............oh hell, i dont know. I dont think you should worry about it, really. Weird people say weird things for no reason. As long as you and hubby know youre not cheating, forget what some crazy says Link to post Share on other sites
lilmoma1973 Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 My bet would be what Tink said he is trying to see if you are that type cause maybe he is wanting to be with you or your man is cheating on you and he wants to know your feelings on the perspective of the cheating aspect..You ever thought maybe your h is cheating and the h is wanting you to avoid him so he won't tell!! Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 has my man been telling people i cheat because he himself does?? Don't get too carried away with this. If everyone knows this cousin just likes to cause trouble with people then you shouldn't be putting too much importance on what he has to say. Link to post Share on other sites
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