sparkle & fade Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 I hate women who act trashy and slutty in front of my man. I hate the way they bend over provocatively and show their a$$ and breasts. I hate the way they suggestively look at my man, giving bedroom eyes, I hate how they move around like they are trying out for the lead role in a cheap porno. I hate the fact that they KNOW what they are doing but they do it anyway. Women, if you are one of these women, give me some insight. Why do you feel compelled to flaunt outrageously in front of men that you know aren’t available? Men, those of you who are obviously taken, what goes through your mind when you are with your girl and you see a girl doing this for your benefit? Do you grasp what they are doing, or does it not even register?? Opinions and insights greatly appreciated… 1 Link to post Share on other sites
JadeStar Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 I'm not one of these women, but to add in my 2 cents for why I think they do this, is lack of self esteem. Some people may argue that or say that its the opposite, and thats fine, but I look at it like this, if they were that secure with themselves they wouldn't feel the need to dress like that, or act like that. They are what you call "attention whores". They like the attention they get from other people be it positive or negative attention, to them its attention just the same. Jade Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 Opinions and insights greatly appreciated… First, where do you guys hang out that you keep seeing women like this?!! I hate women who act trashy and slutty in front of my man. I hate the way they bend over provocatively and show their a$$ and breasts. I hate the way they suggestively look at my man, giving bedroom eyes, I hate how they move around like they are trying out for the lead role in a cheap porno. Sounds like a strip club to me. You might want to change venues. Second, if you're sure your guy won't stray why get so worked up about these women? Even if he does he is still the one responsible for his actions, not them. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sparkle & fade Posted January 24, 2006 Author Share Posted January 24, 2006 Trust me, they are EVERYWHERE….In the grocery store, at the DMV, at clothing stores, at parks, at parties…wherever…. For instance…. I was at a family party with my man, you know, the kind of party where all the relatives from everywhere show up and close friends too. It was, in no way, a drunken meat market party, just a fun relaxing barbecue party….. Well, in walks a cousin of one of them and she’s got her fat bags pushed up, ready for combat and shes flouncing around and giving bedroom eyes to any man that looks in her direction…..next thing you know, she plops down, and in front of the whole world she sits with her legs crossed far apart, underwear showing while tossing come hither looks around…. Link to post Share on other sites
slubberdegullion Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 Doesn't matter where he gets his appetite, as long as he eats at home, right? Those girlz are simply attention-wh0res. Pay them no mind. Link to post Share on other sites
ChinaDoll111 Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 If your man loves you, comes home with you, etc then its probably not that big a deal. However, if you really want to know WHY some women act that way. Walk a mile in their shoes. Go out with your man one night, dress slutty, act slutty, watch what happens. You will probably get a whole of attention. Thats basically why they do it, ATTENTION. People have been doing it forever and I doubt it will stop. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sparkle & fade Posted January 24, 2006 Author Share Posted January 24, 2006 Yes, but what do you men think??? Are you oblivious to it, how do you respond? Do you replay the scenes over and over again?? And as a woman in this situation, how should I respond? Its really starting to annoy me greatly to the point where I am itching to say something about it to them. Ignoring doesn’t work, because they know you are exercising great willpower when you ignore them and they do it all the more. Link to post Share on other sites
Toni_no12002 Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Id say it was attention.Everyone likes attention from the oposite sex some more than others.I have a friend who is very well tarty an acts like that.Thing is men look at them.But they probably just think there tarts too.They need a bit of self respect. To be honest i have a boyfriend and if another man pays me attention i feel good about myself.Im no tart im quite self concious but it does make me feel better.I think maybe these women are trying too hard to get attention from other men. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Some people NEED to be noticed and want to be looked at it. And need to feel desired by many. Being with their spouse just isn't good enough. Link to post Share on other sites
loony Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 First, where do you guys hang out that you keep seeing women like this?!! I agree, that sounded really weird. I don't think I would really care about these girls as I assume that a guy I choose and who chooses me wouldn't be after this type of girl. Link to post Share on other sites
slubberdegullion Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Yes, but what do you men think??? Are you oblivious to it, how do you respond? Do you replay the scenes over and over again?? Depends on the context. Usually, though, it's more than mildly annoying, expecting all the males to come a-running and drooling like Pavlovian dogs at the glimpse of some skin or big breasts or whatever. It's insulting, frankly, that these wimmen think so little of men that they have to resort to these sorts of behaviours. Generally, I just don't respond. They disappear from my vision like phantoms, and are ignored just like the neon bar sign. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Neptune Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Quote sparkle and fade the way they bend over provocatively and show their a$$ and breasts. I hate the way they suggestively look at my man, giving bedroom eyes, I hate how they move around like they are trying out for the lead role in a cheap porno. I hate the fact that they KNOW what they are doing but they do it anyway. You may hate it but I love it. It happens to me once every ten years or so. Link to post Share on other sites
crazy_grl Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 And as a woman in this situation, how should I respond? Its really starting to annoy me greatly to the point where I am itching to say something about it to them. Ignoring doesn’t work, because they know you are exercising great willpower when you ignore them and they do it all the more. Unless your man is oogling and drooling or they're sitting in his lap shaking their ass 2 inches from his face, why do they matter? It doesn't take great willpower to ignore them. If you're secure with yourself and you see what they're doing for what it is, which is that it's something to be pittied more than it is something to be jealous of, then it's really not even an effort to ignore them and they can amp up their routine all they like, because it's not going to make a difference other than to make them look more pathetic. Anyway, it sounds like you're pretty hyper sensitive to it unless you live in some kind of skank village, because I've never noticed women dressing and acting that way in the grocery store, the dmv, parks, or stores. Link to post Share on other sites
My_Other_I Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 I think you are being paranoid about that issue. I don't deny that there are women like that, but it seems to me like you are paying way to much attention to how they look at people and what they look like. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
RainyDayWoman Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 And as a woman in this situation, how should I respond? you respond by ignoring it and showing it has no effect on you, because this is the exact opposite of what the offending trash wants. she doesn't have any interest in your man, she's interested in you knowing your man is interested in her. Link to post Share on other sites
too unreal Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 Bravo and hats off to Rainy Day Woman for posting the following response: she doesn't have any interest in your man, she's interested in you knowing your man is interested in her. My sentiments exactly!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
RainyDayWoman Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 Bravo and hats off to Rainy Day Woman for posting the following response: My sentiments exactly!!!! well thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
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