brkhrt Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 My boyfriend of a year and a half recently cheated on me. He never told me the truth but finally I got to the bottom of it. He told me he was drunk and told me specific details of how it happened. Now he wants a second chance. It wouldn't be so bad but I told him that he only gets one chance with me. We still talk but we are not dating. Should I give him a second chance? I do love him. He tells me that he's so sorry and cries all the time over what happened and wants me to take him back but I don't know...PLEASE let me know what I think. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 If you can't trust him then I wouldn't give him a second chance. What's to say he won't do it again. Don't be friends with him, it will delay the healing process for the both of you. Link to post Share on other sites
francis Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 have you discussed WHY he cheated? if a man cheated on me, i would take it as a sign that there is something lacking in our relationship that he needed from outside of it. or else he is a lying, selfish clod who isnt worth a second glance let alone a second chance. personally, i could never get over it. i go with the thinking that i deserve to be treated well and made to feel special. not second best, or worse, not good enough. hanging around this guy will ruin your self image and self esteem. go find a decent, honest boyfriend who will make you feel like a princess! Link to post Share on other sites
Author brkhrt Posted January 25, 2006 Author Share Posted January 25, 2006 I know but it's to hard to let him go. I'm very much in love with him we have talked about why he did it and he said it was because he was really drunk and I always say alcohol is no excuse. Or is it? What to do..... Link to post Share on other sites
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