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[fritzolsen]

Yea it sure is hard sometimes to have a LDR my now fiance and i met on yahoo personals in april last year and only talked for 2 months until she made the journey 600 miles to come and see me and her family that happen to live in the same city (as she was born here) she is a young 21 year old uni student studying for a 5 year bachelor and has commitments in her own city to fulfil this course due to her being hearing impared and needs interpreters to help her with her courses and they dont offer that service in my city and because of commitments with work i can not as yet move to her city

 

we have only seen eachother every 2 to 3 months for a week at a time having to dodge her family due to thier mistrust of me thinking i am out to hurt her (which i am most certainly not!) and we have had not much time to be together in the flesh at least until xmas and then her family was away and we had no need to sneak about to share time with one another.

 

i therefore asked her to marry me as she was about to embark on a very long 12 month trip abroad to canada to study there.

 

Now i have to not only suffer having to use msn (which just ****s me) and brief emails (which she hates writing) and no chance of a phone call as she cant hear me!! aaarrggghh!! lol i now have to contend with her feeling very alone and isolated over there as she has noone who shares her afflictions and misses me very badly to the point where she can not sleep at night, i as well are suffering from the time difference as when it is night there it is day here etc etc and i just wish there was something i could do to make it not so hard for her , you know... we have been thru hell and back with ever man and his dog out to destroy our love and now this HUGE LDR that i even myself are having a very hard time coping with, and now to see her feeling very depressed and alone??? i just dont know what to do, we wont see eachother for another11 months... any suggestions???