Con's_Gucci_Girl Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Hi, I met a very nice guy about a year ago. Things were really good. We had a chemistry thing going one - we had great chemistry with one another. We never got to anything intimate... but he did ask me out on a date. I cut him off on the date thing when he told me he was married. I had no clue he was married. That threw me off and made me feel a bit embarassed. So, since I had vowed to myself that I would NEVER be the other woman, I decided to leave things with him in the dust. I stopped talking to him, except for a little hi here and there. Well, after about 3 months of not talking to this guy, HE decides to send ME an email. I was quite flattered concidering he still had me on his mind somewhat..... The headline read: How is everything going? (I thought - wow - he cares about my well-being) So I open the message, and all he asks me is how my new puppy is doing.... wow! Why did I get mysepf so worked up??? Yes I did like the guy, I actually had a HUGE crush on him (before I found out he was married), I got over him, now he stirs things up my emailing me after quite a few months of no contact. What's the deal??? I don't understand men at all... I need some pointers here in case I run into a guy like this again in the future! Why would he email me after this long.... and email me only about the dog? I am stumped!?! Does he think that I would go back to being in lust with him and go on a date with him??? Men really suck (well, most do, not all of them). Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 "What's your sign?" It's an opener and he's waiting to see if you respond which will tell him he can forge ahead and keep trying to have an affair with you. Delete and block ought to work well in this situation. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Delete and block ought to work well in this situation. I couldn't agree more. All that this guy is doing is trying to get another shot at you. He is hoping that you will change your mind about things. He is very pathetic. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Con's_Gucci_Girl Posted January 26, 2006 Author Share Posted January 26, 2006 I couldn't agree with you 2 more than I already do! Thanks for taking the time to clear things up! It's proof that there are bad AND good guys out there! Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Your welcome! Link to post Share on other sites
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