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second chance..but i'm still scared


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I haven't posted in awhile but the relationship I was in went sour..he accused me of cheating when i didn't...I found out that he had been dating another girl and wanted a break with me to see her to tell her that it was over..I found out and dumped him..he freaked..and hit bottom with drinking and putting his fist through a wall. I met the girl and we became friends all within a week..too fast because a situation happened and alot of underage people got caught drinking and she was one of them..During the time of meeting her and he called me and said he wanted to talk and start over..OK gave him the chance and the friend who i made with his ex is pissed.

 

Now she tells me he is using me and just wants to be friends with me..I confronted him and he said his roomate played a joke on her and thought he was texting her from his phone..I believe him..things are so good this time,but I have this little nagging thing in the back of my head and I don't know how to get rid of it..He quit drinking but still has a habit of not calling me back..which is everyone's complaint of him...How do you get past this...I have friends at work who say to be careful and they can't believe I took him back..

 

I just want to have that feeling in the back of my head to go away...I have been burned so bad by guys this year and he had a horrible breakup..so I guess we are both cautious..I really love being with him,but I am afraid to ask where this is all heading..do I just let the course play out and not worry or do I ask..I am so scared I am going to invest my all and heart into this and something is going to happen..Remember he asked me back in his life and everyone said he was happy when he was with me..ecstatic...when I dumped him ..he got really depressed for 2 weeks..

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..I confronted him and he said his roomate played a joke on her and thought he was texting her from his phone..I believe him..

 

you do? why?

 

i wouldn't. it's one of the worst lies i have ever heard.

 

and really, this is too much drama. sounds like a bad soap opera.

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