what ? Posted August 17, 2001 Share Posted August 17, 2001 Okay, Like I just puzzled, why do some woman who claim that they dont want a relationship with their ex boyfriend, end up going back to them, and having sex, and then say, that they are just jerks? What is that all about? Uhmm ladies,,, what gives here? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted August 17, 2001 Share Posted August 17, 2001 It does happen in some cases. The physical act of sex is just a step or two up from masturbation or using a vibrator. We are not talking about making love here, just plain old SEX. While someone may have little or no feelings for an ex or there may be some measure of affection left over, the fact is that with all the diseases around and the expense of a good vibrator (high energy costs), an ex may be the most convenient for enjoying the pleasure of sex until another partner comes along. Sometimes exes have sex together because of a problem with completely letting go. Sometimes it's just a physical addiction to each other. Two people can have magical sex but not get along in many other ways that are important. So there are many reasons for enjoying sex with an ex but they are not significant. What is important is that eventually the sex comes to a halt and the two are able to move on and away to more healthy and fulfilling relationships. When one or the other finds a new partner, generally this type of arrangement ceases. But, remember, people are capable of doing all kinds of crazy things. Link to post Share on other sites
little d Posted August 17, 2001 Share Posted August 17, 2001 This is what I think. It's comfort. The guy may be a jerk which in most cases may keep her emotionaly unattached or not want anything more. (But not all cases as some women seem to be most attached to the person that treats them the worst and therefore always go back) When my ex-bf and I broke up, because he was a jerk or we were jerks to each other, we would be out and end up going home together. We were used to each other, didn't want to do the whole dating thing yet, didn't want sleep with strangers for moral and health reasons (std's, etc.), and I think in some parts we we're still putting the final closure on things (that we couldn't get along). There wasn't anybody else involved though. Neither of us we're dating anyone and switching back and forth. It depends on the person and the situation for the reason behind behavior. People spend their entire lives trying to figure it out. Okay, Like I just puzzled, why do some woman who claim that they dont want a relationship with their ex boyfriend, end up going back to them, and having sex, and then say, that they are just jerks? What is that all about? Uhmm ladies,,, what gives here? Link to post Share on other sites
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