Is he cheating me ? Internet Photos..

[Bend it Like Beckham]

This is really hard for me. I am happily married for 8 years. About a year ago, I went through my husband's email account and found a couple of emails from a girl. One was a homemade video of her in her bedroom touching herself naked. The other emails had photos of her. Some half naked and others with clothes. Random pictures of her.

 

I confronted my husband and he tells me that its nothing. He had been chatting online with this girl for a while (maybe once in a month or so) and she insisted that she had something to send him, so she did. He says to me that he never encouraged her or talked in a sexual manner. Anyways, he closed all his email accounts after this incident of me catching him and since that last email where he wrote back to her saying that she pretty much ruined his marriage, he says he is absolutely not in touch with her and never will be. He is constantly reassuring me that I mean the world to him and our family is his number one priority.

 

Recently, I found out more about the "girl" and found out that through our community, she is related to my close cousin's husband. A somewhat distant relative of his. In distance and geography, we are also on opposite ends of the world. Now, I don't know whether to confront her (the girl who sent the photos) by telling her family or should I just put all this on the back burner and learn to re-trust my husband.

 

Also, everything that he did, was it considered cheating ? Is he being unfaithful to me ?