starr3546 Posted January 31, 2006 Share Posted January 31, 2006 My ex of almost 3 months, called me last night, and asked me to meet him at the bar he was at. I wasn't in town so didn't see him. Then i called him this afternoon and said hi, to see what is going on. We talked for an hour and he told me that last night he was on a date, and that he pulled a dick move and pretty much split up from the girl at the bar. He said he wasn't into her anymore...blah blah blah. Then he asked me if i wanted to go out for coffee. I said ok...being weary as to his intentions....we had a clean break, timing seemed to be off....the break came pretty much out of no where, and he broke my heart when he left. Think of a picture perfect relationship...well that is what we had! Anyway i met him for coffee, and he kept telling me how there aren't any good girls, or nice people in the world. He told me that he wants to keep those that are amazing close...confusing?? no??...we talked for 3 hours with ease, and it was nice...He kept saying things like i am screwed up...i don't know what i want...i am lost...i am stupid...told me how amazing i was and perfect...told me that he was again retarded, and that everyone told him he made a mistake when he broke up with me. What the heck does that mean? Is he trying to make a path back to my me by doing this...i am so confused...o and he kept calling our get together a date!!! What is that??!!?? Then he asked me about how i felt seeing him...i was vague and told him i didn't know. He asked me if i felt uncomfortable, i told him no. He told me i was always fun and amazing....again confusing...then we left, no hug nothing...anybody have any idea about what he is thinking?? obviously i still care about him... Link to post Share on other sites
Lishy Posted January 31, 2006 Share Posted January 31, 2006 He is keeping you on the back burner - He split up with you because he needs drama in his life and you just supplied safeness - He seems to be a immature flake - Do you need a guy like that? A guy who meets up with you to discuss how hw cant meet anyone nice! All he wanted from you was adulation and reassurance that he can fall back on you if need be! Dont be that girl honey! If he calls again tell him that you dont want to meet up with him thanks! You seem so nice and he is a prick! Good luck babe Link to post Share on other sites
ThatOneGuy Posted January 31, 2006 Share Posted January 31, 2006 Yeah, what she said. + He probably is such a jerkoff that other girls just arn't as interested in him. And the ones that actually are don't measure up to you But yeah, I wouldn't go back to him. Seems like kinda a loser. I mean, who meets for coffee and talks about how "Messed up" they are. Not to mention he's kinda persistant for JUST getting back in contact with you again. Link to post Share on other sites
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