Victim Feeling Hurt Again

[AZKHO]

Here is my deal, i am not sure what i want out of this post. I am not going to go into detail, but when i was 11 years old i was molested by a 28 year old man. Not only, but he told me he loved me, manipulated me into beliveing him. When my parents found out, the of course, called the law. I told them nothing happened, because he threatened my family and me if i told anything happened between us. My friends knew what was going on. anyways a few years later, he was arrested for molesting his daughter. He was sentenced to jail time. The prosecution used me to get him more time, showing that he wasn't a first time offender. Now, he was recently paroled 1/25/06 and i am reliving that whole experiance again, for some reason. i can't seem to get it out of my head. I want to yell at him and tell him all the pain that he has caused me over the years, in my relationships, friendships, and everyday life. I belive that he should have to pay for what he did to me. I know he as a 2 year MSR, so he can't have contact with me, plus i am out of state now and he has no idea of that. Also, i wondered if there was anyway i could sue him for medical bills that were accured from the incident and pain and suffering, since he was never conficted for what he did to me. Another really crazy thing is that i feel like if i talked to him i would feel better. i want to ask him why he did the things he did to me, and let him see the fear, anger, hurt and dispair he has caused me over the years. i tried and old tactic of writing him aletter of everything i wanted to say to him, and then throwing it away, i also go to read a victims impact statement at his sentencing hearing, but i froze up and didn't say all the things that i wanted to say. Any advice for me on this situation. i thought that i was over it, not it seems that i have never had any personal closure on the situation, what can i do.

[Guest 3]

I think you can still sue him because you were a child at the time. Check your local statutory laws concerning this kid of thing. In some states that statutes of limitations dont run out when the crime was committed against a child.