Back with the girl that screwed me

[btownboy]

well basically heres my story. I dated my girl all thorughout high school 8th grade through 12th. we had a great relationship most of the time and were really in love. I messed up twice by leaving her for this other girl but she was raelly attached and loved me and continued to see me and have sex with me and my gf at the tim also knew it and dindt do anything? idk it was weird then . but me and he ralways got back together and she never got with anyone else cuz she was still with me kinda I guess. well a month after i graduated she broke up with me. said she dindt love me anymore. we fought for a month or so then I found out she had another boyfriend. so i stopped talking to her. 3 months later she calls me saying she's made a horrible mistake she still loves me she thinks about me everyday and all that. we talk for a week or so and all along im telling myself i wont get back with her after she did that to me. well she broke up with him a few days after we started talking and a few days after that she was over and spent the night and we had sex all night. we both said it was just sex she said i wanna come over i havent had good sex in months i said..well ok lol. but the next day we woke up and started talking and i ended up getting back with her. I do love her a lot and she's amazing..but every once in awhile i just sit and think about what she did and her with the other guy and start to hate her for it....well idk sorry this is so long..but what do some of you think i should do?

[CaliGuy]

Forget about the past or it will screw up your future.

 

Besides, you broke up with her twice for the same reason she broke up with you.

 

Stop over-analyzing the relationship. Enjoy it if you both want to be together. Fretting over the past is silly. Learn from it but don't dwell in it.

 

Just be glad you're getting laid

[jonny87]

Your "Guide to being a balanced man" is great. Perfect. I think I'll have it tatooed on my arm for future reference.