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[Shad0w]

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Ok, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 10 months now.

When we first met, she liked to use ebonics when she was talking/typing. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that, I'm just not really into that...so it really turned me off...

Well I spent some time with her (she was my boss's daughter, so during slow hours she was pretty cool to hang out with) and she didn't really use the ebonics much at all during this time because I guess she knew I didn't like it.

So I got to know her a little more, and she seemed really cool.

Anyway, we started dating and all that fun stuff...things happened with her (very long stories) which prevented her from getting out much at all, so I was really the only person she was around all day, other than her mother and her sister, and her occasional phone calls to her friends etc.

Well here we are now, 10 months later, I'm in love with her, and I guess I thought she might have changed from her old (and somewhat "sexually loose") lifestyle.

Now keep in mind I never asked her to change her personality for me or anything. I don't believe one should have to change for the one they love.

I fell in love with the person she was when she was around me.

Now her ebonics and ignorant attitude is slowly coming back. Well now she's got the ebonics back as bad as it was before. The attitude is slowly coming back.

MY POINT:

Basically...I've fallen in love with this girl who I thought was someone else...She's just not my type. We have completely different attitudes, personalities, tastes in music/tv etc. Now I have no idea what I should do.

 

I've tried talking to her about it, but it never helps. In the end I'm called a jerk or an a**h*** for something or other and she thinks me trying to talk to her about something serious is me trying to make fun of her or bitch at her, so I give up.

I need help, desperately.

I can't just go up to her and say, "Sorry you're not my type," after 10 months.

I'd really like to fix our relationship if I can find any possible way. I know I probably sound like a lost cause, but I really do love this girl, and I know she loves me too (although lately she seems like she' getting less interested in me).