Makro Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 So here's the thing. I met my husband five years ago, we got together, he is wonderful like no-one else I've ever been with. I love him, he's my best friend, the sex is great, he looks after me, we've got a house, a car, a cat. Its great. Thing is a few weeks after my husband and I got together I made friends with a guy through uni. We spent a lot of time together and became close. I started to have romantic feelings towards him but tried to put them aside and get on with my relationship that was working already. A few years later I'm married and happy, but I can't move on from the feelings I have for my friend. We're still close, and I go through phases of thinking 'what if' every couple of months. We go out for lunch and I feel like I'm staring at him like a lovesick teenager. I'm fairly sure he liked me when I liked him at the start but I'm also fairly sure I missed my window of opportunity with guy number two about four years ago. I've never known him to be with anyone else, but I'd be gutted if he got a new girl. That's so unreasonable when I've gone and got married. I just don't get it. I know you'll say there is problems in my relationship but there really isn't. I've never fancied other guys in this time, its just this special one. Maybe that makes it worse. Am I pining for the past or the future? I don't know what to do. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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